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The Daily Man-Up: The Mindset You Need to Talk to Any Woman
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The fear that holds you back doesn’t have to
Most men tell me they don’t approach for three main reasons:
- You feel you’re doing something wrong or shameful. You don’t want to creep a girl out or make her feel like you’re hitting on her. You don’t want to bother her. You’re worried what your friends, her friends, or people nearby might think.
- You don’t know what to say. You can’t seem to find the right words. You feel like you don’t know how to approach without something really cool or engaging to say.
- You’re worried about being rejected. You don’t want to face that moment when she shows you she’s not interested. Maybe you think she might even be harsh or disgusted.
But what if I could make all these hurdles disappear?
It starts by understanding all these problems are bullshit and don’t have to exist. They’re only real because of the way you view talking to new women.
Let me give you some examples. You’ve probably even been in situations similar to the following:
What if you got lost somewhere and had to get to an important appointment? You look around and the only person who can help you is a beautiful girl. You would likely ask for her help without hesitation.
What if you overheard a girl next to you talking about one of your favorite bands? Is there a good chance you’d get excited to tell her how you’ve seen them twice and they were incredible live?
Imagine you saw an attractive woman fall down on the street and she dropped her things. You probably wouldn’t hesitate to help her and make her feel better about it.
So really, you’re not always afraid of approaching attractive women because in the right context, you’d talk to them. That’s the missing piece to all of this.
The “conquest” mindset is the root of your struggles
The real issue is that when you see a girl you want to talk to, you’re subconsciously trying to win her approval.
You want her to like you in the same way that you find her attractive. Which deep down, also means you’re thinking about her in a sexual way.
That mindset causes all this anxiety. When you’re approaching a woman as just a conquest, of course you’re going to feel like you’re doing something shady!
It makes you feel like a predator. It makes you feel like you’re trying to coerce or manipulate a girl into wanting you.
Then inherently, you’re going start thinking of manufactured lines to achieve that goal because you’re not in the moment organically trying to connect. This further makes you feel disingenuous and like a fraud.
Finally, you’re going to be overwhelmed by the fear of rejection because that’s the only thing that matters with your current mindset.
So you need to change your intentions to fix your mindset.
In those earlier scenarios when you weren’t worried about saying hi to a girl, getting approval wasn’t your primary goal. You were trying to CONNECT with her.
You just needed help. Or you were trying to help. Or you were so damn enthusiastic about meeting someone with a commonality you didn’t hesitate.
In those moments, you’re being a normal human being so there’s nothing to feel bad about.
You can utilize those same intention to connect to proactively meet women. But you can’t pretend to be there for more than her approval, you actually have to feel that way.
You need to FEEL like going up to this girl is healthy and a positive experience for both of you.
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How A Selfie Saved A Texas Man From 99 Years In Prison
Christopher Precopia was going about his day while working in a lumber yard on September 22, 2017, when he was arrested. Precopia didn’t have a clue as to what his charges were until later on — he was accused of breaking into a woman’s home in Temple and slicing an “X” onto her chest with a box-cutter. This woman happened to be an old high-school girlfriend’s of Precopia’s, one whom he hadn’t communicated with in years.
Precopia was eventually held at Williamson County Jail on charges of burglary of a habitation with the intent to commit other crimes. He was released after having posted $150,000 bail. Still, Precopia was in a world of trouble, and insisted that he was innocent of the crime which he was being accused of.
“I had no idea why everything was happening, and I was lost,” he recalled.
Fortunately for Precopia, he had evidence on his side. His accuser claimed that the incident had happened on September 20, 2017, at 7:20 pm. Conflicting with her story were selfies that Precopia had taken with his mother and loved ones at a hotel in Northwest Austin, an entire 65 miles from the accuser’s home. These pictures were posted to Facebook, and timestamps and geo-location showed that it would be impossible for Precopia to have committed the crime he was accused of. His mother, Erin, recounted her thought process during this tumultuous time.
“I’m thinking, ‘this is awesome. By the grace of God, she said it happened on the day when I can say totally, 100 percent, where he was at,’” she shared.
As for the authorities involved, they agreed that the selfies were a solid alibi for Precopia.
“Most of the time, we deal with gray matters,” revealed attorney Rick Flores. “It’s not normally black or white. But this is one of those cases where I could definitely prove he did not commit this offense.”
Flores was able to get the charges dropped “in the interest of justice” nine months later — after presenting the evidence. Other authorities involved admitted that this case was not handled the way that it should have been. Typically in these cases, the suspect should be interviewed to see if he has an alibi before moving to arrest him. Phone records showed that Precopia had returned a call to the police station — and had even left a message — but was still arrested anyways
“You may not get any more information than you had, but it gives you an opportunity for the suspect to react, respond, deny,” said Bruce Mills, a former Austin assistant police chief and policing consultant. “Certainly a case where the suspect appeared to be available, it would be more step [sic] you could take.”
Temple Police have not owned up to mishandling the case, but Bell County District Attorney Henry Garza stated that the police “are always willing to listen and examine new information.”
It turns out the woman reported that Precopia assaulted her solely due to their dramatic high school relationship. Propecia is looking forward to leaving that relationship — and the entire incident — in the past.
“I’m ready to actually live my life, the way I want to, without having any kind of worry that this can come back and hurt me,” he said.
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The Dumping Grounds
Conan & Slash shop for guitars off of Craigslist
Why people watch wrestling even though it isn’t real
How Brands Like Domino’s Profit From School Lunch
Undercover Cop Tricks Autistic Student into Selling Him Weed
10 HORRIBLE Things You Can Do in Red Dead Redemption 2
Give Stan Lee Back! Spiderman putting in that work
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Linkage
A damn fine collection of hot babes – Leenks
Meet the people hacking their bodies for better sex – CNET
The First Lesson of Marriage 101: There Are No Soul Mates – The Atlantic
After spending more than 70 hours researching 98 active computer-speaker systems and having a blind listening panel evaluate 11 of them, we’ve found the best computer speakers – Amazon
5 Ways Smart People Sabotage Their Success – HBR
These Two Questions Will Help You Decide If You Want to Do Something – Life Hacker
The Best Way To Save People From Suicide – Highline
How to Get Your Finances in Order – 2 Cents
7 Tips From Ernest Hemingway on How to Write Fiction – Open Culture
Dave Grohl opens up about what he learned from Kurt Cobain’s death – COS
New Twist To Homeless Man GoFundMe Story: It Was All A Scam – Forbes
Michelle Obama on Her Bond With ‘Beautiful, Funny, Kind, Sweet, Man’ George W. Bush – TIME
How Hackers Sell Luxury Hotel Rooms for Next to Nothing – Motherboard
If you have some money to splurge, this is one of the best chefs knives out there – Amazon
Man Who Made Fatal ‘Swatting’ Hoax Call Pleads Guilty To 51 Charges – NPR
Eugenie Bouchard Dripping Wet Bikini of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
Best New Restaurants Of 2018 – Thrillist
Meet Pacers’ Tyreke Evan’s Girlfriend La Barbie Garcia – Sports Gossip
Sophie Mudd Will Bust Your Brains – Hollywood Tuna
A Man Explains 7 Things Men REALLY Love About Women – Brass Pills
Inside the ‘Sex Island’ Vacation That Sounds Like The Most Debauched Getaway Ever – Maixm
Animal rights activists decide a beggar can’t have a favourite animal and take his puppy – YouTube
Instagram Model’s Cleavage was Too Much for the Louvre! – BB Blog
Everyday Men (and Women) Tell Us Why They’ve Decided Not to Have Sex – Mel Magazine
You Can Buy a New $50,000 R34 GT-R Engine From Nissan’s Holy Grail Of Factories – Jalopnik
The Story Behind That Guy Who Married an Anime Hologram in Japan – VICE
6 Things No One Tells First-Time Homebuyers – Medium
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Pretty Girls Make The World Go Round
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Hot New Music Of The Day
The homie sent over this shoegaze dark rock song by SoCal band Bizou. I dig the clashing guitars, haunting vocals and overall goth vibe. The bassist used to be in The Smashing Pumpkins and you can hear the influence.
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A Heavy Metal Dose Of AWESOME To Help You Celebrate Friday!
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A Few Videos Guaranteed To Make You Feel Better About Life
Bodybuilder making a blind fan’s day
Two Eritrean refugee children living in Toronto can’t contain their joy experiencing snow for the first time
Blind and deaf dog can tell when dad’s car pulls into the driveway
Grandma gives high-fives at marathon
Woman Falls To Her Knees When She Sees Her Quadriplegic Dog Walking Again
This very smart boy knows how to entertain himself
Mascot trying to get a girlfriend
Blind Dog Trying His Best To Make New Friends
Dog experiences snow for the first time
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A Few Photos To Remind You That Life Is Beautiful
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The Daily Man-Up
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The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow or love. Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited his freedom. Only the person who risks is truly free.
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The Dumping Grounds
The Real Reason McDonald’s Ice Cream Machines Always Seem To Be Broken
Why $1 Ramen Noodles Is So Valuable in Prison
Cigar experts reveiew gas station cigars
How Momofuku Makes Their Famous Roast Duck Ssam
How Cars Keep You POOR!
Nirvana – Unplugged & Unedited
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Linkage
Three Feet From God: An Oral History of Nirvana ‘Unplugged’ – The Ringer
16 Evening Habits That Make Everything Better – Refinery 29
A 43” 4k Ultra HD Smart TV For Less Than $300! – Amazon
Hundreds of illegal immigrants from the caravan reach the U.S. border and scale the small fence that separates Tijuana,and San Diego – Live Leak
100 million Americans have chronic pain. Very few use one of the best tools to treat it – VOX
How Big Is Amazon? Its Many Businesses In One Chart – NPR
The brother of El Chapo’s partner just spilled the Sinaloa cartel’s secrets – VICE
A man yelled “Heil Hitler! Heil Trump!” in Baltimore during classic play about a Jewish family – Baltimore Sun
David Lynch Releases a Disturbing, New Short Film: Watch “Ant Head” Online – Open Culture
Victoria’s Secret Doesn’t Want Plus-Size or Trans Women Walking the Runway – Jezebel
Julian Assange Is Secretly Charged in U.S., Prosecutors Mistakenly Reveal – NY Times
Judge rejects neo-Nazi’s First Amendment argument in harassment case – ARS Technica
This projector is small enough to fit in your pocket and powerful enough to make you consider getting rid of your TV – Amazon
A group of people with an amphibious life have evolved traits to match – Economists
Utah Jazz’s Grayson Allen girlfriend Morgan Reid is a hottie – Sports Gossip
I’m a 28 year-old engineer living in Singapore who makes $48,630 — here’s what I spend in a week – Insider
What It’s Like To Have Sex After Gender-Confirmation Surgery – Women’s Health
This couple gives zero fucks and had sex in the middle of a concert – GFY
5 Ways to Speak More Powerfully – Success
Sara Jean Underwood Grabbing Morning Wood of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
To Be More Productive, Try Managing Your Energy Instead of Your Time – Curiosity
Kelly Rohrbach Had a Bikini Wedgie – G-Celeb
Stop Saying “When I…” or “If I…” And Radically Improve Your Life – Not Salmon
Jake Paul’s Model Fling Nikki Banner Talks About What Spending the Weekend With Jake Paul Is Like – The Blemish
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Get At this Motivation And CONQUER Your Week!
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The Daily Man-Up: It Would Be A Tragedy To Never Face Adversity In Life
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No man is more unhappy than he who never faces adversity. for he is not permitted to prove himself. ~ Seneca
In our society, it’s the man who is born into wealth who is viewed as being blessed with a gift that he did not have to earn. But it is the man born into much adversity who is given the greatest gift of all: the gift to test his mettle, to prove his worth, to see what he is, indeed, made of.
It’s while this man is facing obstacle after obstacle that, if he so chooses, will acquire far more grit and toughness than his counterpart who’s faced little in the way of tribulation.
Great men aren’t always the ones we read about in history books. They’re often the men who faced life as men, who refused to refuse responsibility, who took what was coming on their feet and made the lives of those around them not only better, but possible.
Our society judges success numerically. It’s normally what a man’s done or what he’s acquired that we judge him on. The true value of a man, however, isn’t found in his bank account or on his property, but within him. It’s difficult to explain the importance of this fact because everywhere you go and everyone you talk to will likely judge you on the former rather than the latter. But it’s their judgment that you cannot fret over nor take to heart.
There are bigger things at play than we realize. As death becomes your next adventure, it won’t be the things you buy nor the land you hold that will bring you happiness, pride, or contentment, it’s the mouths you’ve fed, the honor you’ve upheld, and the people you’ve defended that will bring you solace and peace.
The man with things to his name and numbers in his estate may have meaning, too, but only if he lives a life filled with adversity and struggle, obstacles, fears faced, and battles won. The man who lives a life without turmoil and in complete ease and peace, devoid of adversity and struggle, cannot call himself a man, nor know what he’s made of, nor proclaim that he has truly lived.
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McDojo: A Martial Arts School That Is Solely Established To Make Money Instead Of Genuinely Teaching Martial Arts
These are actually true deadly moves… seen them on Dragon Ball Z
It is just that easy!
The deadliest KO I have ever seen!
Dim Mak Specialist
Too deadly for the UFC
The ol soft redirect to a take away!
His defense is impregnable!
Systema is to damn savage
Just hit the dude with another dude
Hit em with that shoulder chi
Never have to sprawl again!
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Kenyan Official: Homosexual Lions Learned It From “Copying” Gay Tourists
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Two lions spotted in a gay sexual encounter must have seen a homosexual couple “behaving badly” in their park and should be separated and given counselling, an official in Kenya said.
The animals were photographed after one mounted the other in a secluded bush area of the Masai Mara game reserve in the south-west of the African country.
Ezekial Mutua, the chief executive of the Kenya Film Classification Board, said the pair must have been influenced after they viewed a human same sex couple
He said that if that wasn’t the case, the only other explanation is “the devil”.
Mutua wasn’t finished there either. He went on to say that the lions would need counselling to “cure them” of their homosexuality.
The official made the comments on social media and he has received backlash over his “idiotic” views.
He said: “These animals need counselling, because probably they have been influenced by gays who have gone to the national parks and behaved badly.
“I don’t know, they must have copied it somewhere or it is demonic. Because these animals do not watch movies.”
“Some research needs to be done. And also I wish I [could confirm] the two lions were actually male, because it is not normal.
“I mean where on earth have you ever heard something like this happening. The demonic spirits inflicting in humans seems to have now caught up with the animals.
“That is why I will say isolate the crazy gay animals, study their behaviour because it is not normal.”
Mutua is the head of the Kenyan Film Classification Board and recently banned a Disney show because it featured a gay character.
He told Nairobi News: “Any attempt to introduce gay programming in Kenya will be met with the full force of the law.”
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70-Year-Old Man Robs A Bank In Hopes Of Going To Jail In Order To Avoid Living With His Wife Of 33 Years
A 70-year-old man charged with robbing a Kansas City, Kan., bank said he did it because he preferred a jail cell over living with his wife.
According to court documents, Ripple handed a teller a note that read, “I have a gun, give me money.”
After the teller handed him nearly $3,000 in cash, Mr Ripple waited in the lobby for police to arrive.
When a bank security guard approached him, Ripple told the guard, “I’m the guy you’re looking for.”
The guard took the money from Ripple and held him until police arrived, which wasn’t long, because Kansas City, Kan., police headquarters is on the same block.
When he was questioned later by investigators, Ripple told him that he and his wife had argued and he “no longer wanted to be in that situation.”
“Ripple wrote out his demand note in front of his wife … and told her he’d rather be in jail than at home."
Update:
Mr Ripple has been sentenced to six months house arrest as his punishment due to his mental health.
Mr Ripple had multiple bypass heart surgery in 2015 and suffered from depression that, according to lawyers, went undiagnosed.
Prior to the robbery, he lived a normal, law-abiding life as a husband and stepfather to four children. His public defender called the robbery a “cry for help”.
At the sentencing trial Mr Ripple said he had sought medical help for his mental health and said he “feels like his old self”.
The vice president of the bank and the teller both supported a request for leniency for Mr Ripple given his mental health state. It is incredibly rare for someone who commits a bank robbery not to be sentenced to prison and Mr Ripple’s sentence could have faced up to 37 months per local law.
He will also serve three years of supervised probation and must do 50 hours of community service. Mr Ripple was ordered to pay $227.27 to the bank, which represents the billable hours for bank employees sent home on the day of robbery. He is also required to give $100 to a crime victims fund.
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