*slowly reaching for homework*
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And This Is Why You Should Stay In School Kids…
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Pictures Of Vanessa Hanson Will Help You Get Through The Day
Here’s a damn awesome collection of pics tweeted by Strikeforce ring girl and all around hottie, Vanessa Hanson. Check out the rest of her pictures here and follow her on Twitter here
Prepare Your Eyes For Intense Visual Stimulation (20 Pics) – Ned Hardy
The Most Outrageous Celebrity Requests – The Slingshot
Madden fills out a bikini nicely – Gorilla Mask
Kate Upton is your lovely lady of the day – Hot Clicks
Cowboy cheerleaders (47 Photos) – The Brigade
How to Convey Your Sexual Side from the Start – The Dating Specialist
6 Famous Symbols That Don’t Mean What You Think – Linkiest
Kendall Jenner Wears Ridiculously Low Cut Bikini – Celeb Jihad
Katie Holmes Post-Scientology Hotness – G-Celeb
So Damn Cute! – Double Viking
10 Pictures Of A Random Facebook Hottie – DJ Mick
She’s Uncoachable: Amy Anderssen Needs No Introduction – Uncoached
15 Celebrity Photobombs that Will Surely Make you Laugh – Unreality Mag
Photos of Tallulah Willis Topless and Smoking a Joint Surface – Yeeeah
Zoe Duchesne shows off her killer curves in lingerie – Brosome
Karla Molina will make fireworks in your pants – Regretful Morning
Jimmy Clausen Dating Volleyballer Jess Gysin? There Is Hope For You Tools – Busted Coverage
Random Dudes Try To Woo Candice Swanepoel in Miami – Moe Jackson
Mel B – Milf In Her 40s Looking Like In Her 20s – Pick Me Up News
It’s time for some non-soldier hot girls in camo (44 Photos) – The Brigade
Animals Are The Greatest (7 GIFs) – Ned Hardy
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Gamers Unite! This Post Is For You!
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Being an Introvert Is No Excuse
By Nick Notas
I see a lot of guys who are afraid to challenge themselves socially using the excuse: “I’m an introvert.” They claim that because of this, they don’t have what it takes to become good at connecting with women. They believe their brains aren’t wired that way and there’s nothing they can do about it.
Here’s something that might shock you…
I’m an introvert! Yes, me, the guy who’s always preaching about pushing yourself to meet new people.
How is that possible? It’s because the real difference between introversion and extraversion is often misunderstood.
Most think that being an introvert automatically means you’re shy and lack confidence. Therefore, an extravert is confident and social. It’s not true at all. While there are correlations, the distinction between the two comes down to:
How you recharge or expend your energy.
Introverts tend to lose energy in large social settings like parties, bars, clubs, and larger groups. They feel drained and to regain that energy they require alone time or intimate interactions. They tend to feel best when with small groups, close friends, or relaxing on their own.
Extraverts tend to lose energy when they’re alone and it can actually frustrate them. Instead, they feel refreshed when they are surrounded by many people and in vibrant environments. All that energy empowers them and gives them the boost they need.
For example, my business partner Thomas and I are on the opposite ends of the spectrum.
When he enters a room, he is everywhere. Always talkative, gregarious, and will be surrounded by every person in the room. I’ve seen him keep that attitude up all night, for multiple nights in a row. I’d go crazy.
I, on the other hand, usually like to focus on making intimate connections, one or two people at a time. Within those I’m not afraid to be loud or playful, but I’m not always the center of the room. And personally, I can’t party every night without needing some serious decompression.
Does that mean one of us is more confident than the other? No. We are both direct, honest, and unafraid to speak our minds. We’re bold when we need to be and engage our audiences. We just enjoy approaching situations differently.
I’m frustrated that the word introvert has become the #1 cop out for men who are just scared. It’s the easiest way to avoid your fears and get people to pity you. It lets you absolve yourself of any responsibility. In reality, you’re just shy, nervous, and socially inexperienced. I know because I’ve used the same excuse way too many times in the past.
The trick to becoming a socially confident introvert is being proactive in a way that’s congruent to your personality. Here are some points I’ve learned over the years:
- Focus on daytime interactions, events, and meetup groups. They are casual and the interactions are more organic and intimate. Girls’ “defensive shields” are often lowered and you don’t have to be over the top or constantly high energy.
- Find people to go out with. Clubs are not as fun when I go by myself. Going with a good friend makes the experience that much better. Bringing a girl (or your girlfriend) to dance with at a club is great, too.
- Challenge yourself regularly. Don’t allow yourself to use the “I’d rather stay in” excuse every time. Set a goal to meet new people once a week and work up from there. Write it down and hold yourself accountable. As you push yourself and socialize more, it gets easier. You become comfortable in these environments and it becomes less draining to spend a night out. That said…
- Take days off to recharge. No one is saying you have to go socializing 24/7 and in fact, it can be harmful to your personal development. Making yourself repeatedly go out when you don’t want to can reinforce negative feelings and stress you further.
- Create your optimal environment. It can be overwhelming in busy settings with lots of people around. You should start off approaching a group and then isolating the girl you’re interested in. You can do this by turning your body language and directing a statement or question at her. This will start a personal bubble between you.
After a few minutes of conversation, you can ask her to grab a drink, get some fresh air, or go somewhere quieter so you can get to know her better. Moving a girl to an area where you can have private discussion will strengthen your connection and allow you to only have to focus on her.
- Your mood can turn around instantly. Sometimes when you’re feeling shitty, all you need is one amazing interaction. I can’t tell you how many times I wanted to head home only to talk to a girl and feel completely rejuvenated. A good conversation can have the same effect as a couple of Red Bulls. Your attitude is often all in your head.
Shyness is fear. Introversion is what it is. You can enjoy your solitude and still build meaningful relationships.
Check out more awesome dating articles by Nick at The Dating Specialist
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Hot Girls Rocking The Misty Cosplay And Doing It Well (26 Pictures)
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The Dumping Grounds
Maury YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER Dance Compilation!
Q&A with Laina (Overly Attached GF)
Higgs Boson for dummies
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A Fresh Batch Of AWESOME To Start Friday Off Properly
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If You Didn’t Get Enough Of Demi The First Time Around, I Got MOAR Pictures Of Her!
Because the last gallery of Demi was lacking in quantity, I found a gang more pictures of this hottie to compensate. Check out the rest of her pictures here
You Know You’re A 90?s Kids If You (20 Pics) – Ned Hardy
20 Awesome GIFs To Make You Laugh – The Slingshot
Friday Firepower: time to Choose your Weapon (31 HQ Photos) – The Brigade
Lindsey Strutt rocks the secretary look well – Gorilla Mask
Allira Cohrs is your lovely lady of the day – Hot Clicks
The Newbie’s Guide to Losing Weight & Feeling Great – The Dating Specialist
10 Bad Habits Worth Losing - Linkiest
Selena Gomez Wearing A Striped Bikini – Celeb Jihad
Karuna Ezara Parikh in FHM – G-Celeb
This blonde is damn freaking hot – Double Viking
28 Pictures Of Girls Who Just Wanna Have Fun – DJ Mick
5 Creepy Dudes to Avoid Being at Bars – Uncoached
Sailor Moon Meets the Avengers – Unreality Mag
Taylor Swift in the Swimsuit Equivalent of a Chastity Belt – Yeeeah
Emanuela de Paula in all of her bodaciously curvy glory – Brosome
Laura Vinicombe is a Barbie IRL – Regretful Morning
Candice Swanepoel Rocks Thong Bikini In Miami [23 PHOTOS] – Busted Coverage
Bikini Pics: Arianny Celeste Out With Friends on Miami Beach – Moe Jackson
Aubrey O’Day Offers Offering Explicit Ass Shots – Pick Me Up News
Good news, I found some Bad Ideas for the Weekend (35 HQ Photos) – The Brigade
How awesome is this cop? (PIC) – Ned Hardy
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This Post Is Dedicated To Man’s Best Friend (30 Pictures)
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Friday Would Not Be Complete Without Your Weekly Dose Of Reaction GIFs
Sitting in the middle of campus watching girls pass by in hot yoga pants and short shorts.
When a girl tells me she likes it rough
When my wife said we are spending the weekend with my in-laws
When I unexpectedly see some boobs in a movie
When I’m sober in a club
When my boss tells me I can leave early
When my gay brother-in-law compliments me on my clothes.
When I’m still in line at McDonalds and I see the manager change the menu from breakfast to the regular menu
Whenever my drunk friend is around black people
My ex got pregnant with her new boyfriend. Her parents have no clue. It just hit facebook
Getting laid for the first time in almost 7 months
When I can’t sleep on a hot night
Finding out your ex developed mental health issues
When my ex girlfriend shows up to the party
When I try to reference something before 1995 and no one gets it
Taking a shit at my friend’s house right before I leave
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Girls Who Make Glasses Look Sexy (27 Pictures)
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The Dumping Grounds
Happy Friday Everyone!
Brutal nose break during kickboxing fight
Holy Crap! Michael Winslow Does Whole Lotta Love by Led Zeppelin
25 Greatest Unscripted Scenes in Films
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Some Saturday Morning Motivation
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I Got My Money On Anderson Silva Tonight!
The day of reckoning has come. The day that Chael Sonnen puts his money where his mouth is and delivers on all the trash talk that he has been spewing for the last two years since he got defeated in the last minute of a 25 minute ass whooping that he was giving to Anderson Silva. Even though Chael is hell bent on revenge, I’m still putting my money on Anderson Silva, although I’m a little bit weary that Chael has gotten into Anderson’s head. You know damn well that Anderson has been working that takedown defense like a mofo and if he can stuff the shot, Chael’s is like a shark on land against Anderson’s standup. Nonetheless it will be a good fight and the undercard looks pretty damn good too. I know I posted Anderson Silva’s documentary ‘Like Water’ a few months ago, but it only seems fitting that I post it again for an occasion such as this one. Enjoy.
Part 2
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Liz Chavez Is Super Fit And Super Hot (22 Pictures)
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The Weekend Dump
UFC Cribs: Anderson Silva
Anderson Silva vs Chael Sonnen 1
Anderson Silva caught flying scissor heel hook
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Thanks For All The Feedback!
Just want to thank everybody for all the feedback. I read each and every comment and I’m in the process of improving the site and making it more awesome and user friendly. I also want to thank everybody that comes to this site. You guys kick major ass and just know that everyday I’m going to do my very best to provide you guys with the right mix of babes, awesomeness, lols and motivation to help you conquer your day. Rock On!
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Missed The Fight??? Get At This Video Before It Gets Taken Down
Holy Crap! What a fight! For all the Silva fans, myself included, for 2 rounds you rode a rollercoaster of emotion as Chael got that double leg and dominated Silva in the first round. Redemption came in the second round as Silva stuffed two takedown attempts and did what was needed to be done.
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A Few Bits Of Motivation To Help Make Your Week Exceptionally Awesome
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