Parenting, You’re Doing It RIGHT!
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Old School Hotness (26 Pics)
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This Post Is Depressing…22 Pictures That Will Make You Feel Old
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Feeling Needy Around Women
by Dr Robert Glover
A common issue for Nice Guys is feeling needy around women. They often approach them in a“please like me” kind of way — passive and ineffective.
Once in a relationship, Nice Guys tend to hook up a hose to their woman and expect her to constantly validate them and be their core source of social and emotional connection.
This may feel familiar to you, but it’s not an effective dating strategy.
The main reason that seeking approval from a woman doesn’t accomplish what you want is that your “needy traits are “feminine” in nature.
The “feminine” seeks external validation. The feminine craves approval.
The “masculine” is self-validating by through action. That is why women are generally turned on by men who “do,” not men who seek their approval.
If you approach women from a needy place, seeking their validation, any woman you attract to you will probably be fairly “masculine” in nature. That means she will most likely be pretty controlling and dominant, and maybe even mean and aggressive. She might completely lack the “nurturing” (feminine) qualities you say you crave. She could even resent you for having to take care of you, which usually turns off the sex switch as well.
That is why I teach men to embrace their masculine side by creating a great “cake” of a life. This great cake is made up of:
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Pursing your passions
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Doing guy things with guys
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Leaning into challenge
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Regular, strenuous exercise
As you work on making the great cake, you can invite a great woman to be your icing. She will never be the cake or even one of the key ingredients in your great cake.
With 30 years experience as a marriage therapist, and two marriages, I have observed that when men make a woman the cake of their life, it always falls flat.
As I heard David Deida, the author of “The Way of The Superior Man” once state, “What kind of woman would be attracted to a man who has made her his greatest passion?”
Healthy women are attracted to a man who is making his great cake. They don’t want to be the cake. They like being the icing (women have told me this).
Oh, one more thing. You don’t have to wait until you make the great cake before you start interacting with women. They are attracted to the fact that you are doing the things that will result in a great cake.
Since most Nice Guys have difficulty making their own needs a priority and tend to be pretty risk adverse, doing the things to make a great cake can feel initially overwhelming. That’s okay. This one of those things that you don’t have to do perfectly.
Take out a piece of pager and start writing down some concrete, doable things that you can start working on in each of the four areas above. This will put you into your masculine self. From that place, you will fill yourself up and won’t be as likely to turn to a woman to do it for you, something she can’t do anyway. You will also look immediately more attractive to the women you meet.
Check out more awesome articles by Dr Robert Glover here >>
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The Dumping Grounds
When you’re dancing and you think no one is watching
Guy finds his house plumbed with beer
I saw a 417-pound man get thrown yesterday at the US Sumo Open
Ever wonder how a $500 kitchen knife is made?
The Marauder, a 10 ton $475,000 civilian acquirable vehicle, background check required
Horrific lifting technique. This gym should be closed
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Awesome Links Of The Day
Rare Photos Of Famous People (29 Pics) – Ned Hardy
OMG! 2013 SI Swimsuit Issue Behind The Scenes – Knowd
6 Gaping Plot Holes That Almost Ruin Their Movies – Crowd Ignite
User submit: lose your heart to this cute Army mechanic (49 Photos) – The Brigade
Katrina Bowden in a Bikini in Hawaii of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
Claudia Sampedro Is Queen of the Hooters – Linkiest
Female Inmates from the Olden Days (17 pics) – Leenks
Salma Hayek Shows Massive Cleavage – Celeb Jihad
Jennifer Lopez Still Got Dat Booty – G-Celeb
15 Photos of Alexandra Albu, The UFC’s Bantamweight Goddess – Cage Potato
Elton John is worried about Miley Cyrus – Celeb Slam
Tight body on this bikini babe – Double Viking
Girls, Mirrors and Cameras Are Awesome Together – Bro My God
If Picasso Painted Superheroes – Unreality Mag
This Dude Has The World’s Biggest Star Wars Collection – Uncoached
The 20 Funniest Cheerleader Animated Gifs Ever – World Wide Interweb
TwitPic Theater: Short Shorts for Everyone! – The Smoking Jacket
Claudia Romani Walks Her Puppy In Miami Beach! – Moe Jackson
Back By Popular Demand: Ohio State’s Briana Novak – Big 10 Tens
God given gift Nina Agdal will drive you insane – Brosome
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Oh Just Pictures From A Yearbook….From 1913!
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Tara Is On That Next Level Of Hotness
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A Few Glorious GIFs For Your Consideration
Creation ilustrated
I think she mistook his “just a little gas” hand signal for “open that sumbitch up and put me through this fucking wall”
Incredible reflexes.
Teamwork in soccer
Ever have one of those days where you shouldve stayed in bed
Meanwhile in Russia
I’ll just leave this here
A criminal mastermind at his best
HULK SMASH!
Why they call it a suicide grip
Awesome Concert Lighting
Naughty Texas Tech Girl
Russia and US relations
The Stickhandling Skills of Patrick Kane
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21 Incredible Photographs Taken Throughout History
The New York Times Writers, 1942
Lincoln Conspirators Execution, July 7th 1865
Canadian firefighters seal an oil well in Kuwait after Iraqi sabotage during the Gulf War, 1991
New York City, summer of 1969, start of the miniskirt era
Group of kids on the mean streets of Springfield, Massachusetss, by Lewis Wickes Hine. 1916
0.025 seconds after the first atom bomb detonation; code name Trinity. July 16, 1945, New Mexico USA
Torpedo shop at the Washington Navy Yard, circa 1917
An exhibition of flying machines, Paris 1909
Annette Kellerman promoted women’s right to wear a one-piece bathing suit like this circa 1907… She was arrested for indecency
This is how they prove London’s Double-decker buses are not a tipping hazard. (1933)
Inside a 1913 Drug Store
Brighton Swimming Club 1863
Vova Egorov, 15 Year Old Scout for the Red Army. WWII, April 1942
A lion riding in the sidecar of a go-kart at a wall of death caveman circus carnival attraction at Revere Beach, Massachusetts, c. 1929
Mount Rushmore Before Carving
Customers at a London music store listen to the latest record releases in soundproof listening booths, 1955
Only confirmed photograph of Abraham Lincoln at Gettysburg, before giving his famous address, November 19, 1863
Högertrafikomläggningen, the day where traffic in Sweden switched from the left to the right side of the road 1967
Communist Party USA meeting in Chicago, 1939
The Last Kiss (WWII)
ENIAC – One of the most historic computers
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One Trend That I Hope Will Never Go Away, Yoga Pants!
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The Dumping Grounds
Oh nothing, just a GoPro strapped to an eagle
Honest Trailers – World War Z
GTA 5 Review: So Realistic It’s Boring
A realistic explanation on why the American health care system is so damn expensive
Gel absorbs impact, allows man to be beat about the head with shovel unharmed
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What If Dr. Seuss Created Star Wars (5 Pics)
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This Is What Happens When Your Coworkers Have A Lot Of Time On Their Hands And Are Semi-Proficient With Photoshop
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Awesome Pop Culture Portraits By Hillary White
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Totally Relatable (24 Pics)
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A Typical Week In A Corporate Office Job
by scoote
When I worked at a decently sized corporation, most people would kind of jack around, look at their assignments etc., on Monday morning. They’d start working on it around 2 PM on Monday afternoon, half heartedly, and then start thinking about what they were going to have for dinner, go to the cooler, go have a snack, email, etc. They would have gotten about 30 minutes of real actual work in by around 3:30 in the afternoon.
By that time, they decide the day is shot, look at the project for another 30 or so minutes, "planning" until they get an email about something unimportant. They spend some time on the email for no apparent reason, and now it’s 4:30. They get on reddit till 5.
They come in Tuesday morning raring to go. They finish about half of the project by lunch. They spend the rest of the afternoon researching their fantasy football team, since they ate a big lunch to celebrate.
They come back, Wednesday, and there a decent amount of emails about nothing from Corporate in their in box. They have to fill out various forms and self evals. This sucks, and eats up their Wednesday morning. There’s a meeting around 2:30 of their department. They fuck around after lunch, until the meeting. The meeting lasts till 3:45. Fuck it, I’ll finish this Thursday.
They get another quarter of it done Thursday morning, since they are kind of bored of the work week, and their kid kept them up the night before. They start making plans and emailing and texting with their friends for Thursday happy hour, or college football watching or whatever it is that they are going to do. It’s now 2:30 Thursday and they have about 3/4 of their project done.
Their kid calls from school and needs X,Y,Z or something else occurs to take them from work, maybe they are sick, or need car repair, for whatever reason, no one was ever at work on Thursday afternoon.
They get in Friday morning, and now they are kind of anxious, because if something goes wrong, they won’t finish. That fear gets them kind of paralyzed until about 10:30. They start working on it, decide to eat lunch at their desk, and finish the work up at around 2:30 on Friday.
They go chat with their friend in HR because they feel good, and then realize they still need to send the work to their boss, look at their clock and realize it’s 4:45.
They send it to their boss, who is happy they finished "on time." Said boss continues to think it takes a week to get that kind of work done.
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Carlye Deserves Your Full, Undivided Attention
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The Dumping Grounds
When being a bouncer goes wrong
The Most Important Image Ever Taken By Hubble
GTA 5 – Knockout Compilation
Graham Hancock explains how DMT may be the next step in Human Evolution
Rare footage of 1950′s housewife on LSD
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Salvador Dali’s Interpretation Of Alice In Wonderland
Down the Rabbit Hole
Who Stole the Tarts?
The Pool of Tears
A Caucus Race and a Long Tale
The Rabbit Sends in a Little Bill
Advice from a Caterpillar
Pig and Pepper
A Mad Tea Party
The Queen’s Croquet Ground
The Lobster’s Quadrille
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