Secrets of success in 8 words, 3 minutes
Secrets of success in 8 words, 3 minutes
Here’s a damn awesome gallery of pics tweeted by a hottie named Kaylia to help us deal with the pains brought about by Monday. Check out the rest of her pictures here and follow her on Twitter here
Photographer Takes EPIC Pictures Of His Grandma – Ned Hardy
The Ultimate Listing Of NBA Wags – Knowd
A couple sweet shot of firing off a 120mm mortar (10 HQ Photos) – The Brigade
Alessandra Ambrosio Reigned Supreme in Sexy Halloween Costumes 2012 – Heavy
10 Ways Not to Flirt at a Bar – College Humor
Kate Upton Behind-The-Scenes Photos And Video From Skullcandy Shoot – Refined Guy
Asa Akira’s Presidential Offer of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
Playboy’s Birthday Girls: The Halloween Babes Edition – The Smoking Jacket
Selena Gomez Ridiculously Suggestive Photo – Celeb Jihad
56 Photos of Hot Celeb Chicks Dressed for Halloween – G-Celeb
Nicole Trunfio is in a bikini and damn hot – Celeb Slam
Cute redhead is generous with the cleavage – Double Viking
These gorgeous girls didn’t get this fit by accident (48 Photos) - Linkiest
You Should Know how I Feel About Daisy Dukes Shorts – Uncoached
Disney’s Take on Star Wars Mash Up Pictures – Unreality Mag
Hottie of The Week: Sasckya Porto – Bro My God
Angie Marie makes Monday smile worthy – Regretful Morning
20 Base Jumps off of Famous Monuments – Ego TV
Rumer Willis Showing Off Her Bikini Body In Hawaii – Moe Jackson
25 Pictures Of The Sexiest Brides… EVER!!!! – Super Booyah
The Best of Tard the Grumpy Cat – City Rag
Meet The Largest Football Player Ever – Knowd
by MaysonNSS
Over a year ago I sat in my computer chair typing a goodbye post to the readers and customers that I spent 5 years of my life teaching and working with. I tried to explain why I was leaving a company that I built with no plan to ever return.
Today I am sitting that same chair trying to type a post that I have wanted to share with people for over a year. There is A LOT of bull shit that SOME coaches and companies shove down the throat of the consumer to SELL you shit. I am here today as in insider to dispel that BS and give you actual advice and I’m not going to charge you a dime or make you visit my website because I want more hits. Out of all my 5+ years involved in the dating scene & teaching these are the most important lessons that I could EVER give anyone.
1) Your Appearance Matters, Fix it.
Dating coaches like to say that looks don’t matter and thus work on your game. They are liars. Looks matter for more reasons than you know. First off, looks matter because women value men that they are going to show off to their family and friends. If you look like a wreck she won’t show it off. Think about your first car? Was it a pile of shit? Rusted, maybe broken down? You don’t want to show that off, you just want it to fill the void until you can upgrade, welcome to the world of women.
Secondly, your appearance matters because it is an outward expression of how you feel about yourself. It shows your self-discipline and dedication to who you think you are. If you value something you take care of it, period.
Lastly, I have learned time and time again that a very high quality woman will sleep with guys who aren’t that physically attractive but they RARELY get in relationships with them. If someone tells you looks don’t matter then they are lying or don’t know WTF they are talking about. Looks can be DRASTICALLY improved by educating yourself.
2) Attraction isn’t something you do, it’s something that you become.
Want to know how to build attraction? Become attractive. Words, lines, routines, banter, all this BS people shove down your throat isn’t what women find attractive. What women find attractive is the person delivering these things. Attraction at its core is self confidence and when you actually talk TO a girl instead of talking ABOUT her, you are starting to teach yourself confidence, this is why approaching works, it teaches guys to overcome their fear and replace it with confidence.
Here is how to become attraction rather than ACTING like you are attractive.
Develop a since of fashion and look good EVERYTIME you walk out that door. Take care of your body, lose weight fix your smile do whatever you have to do. SMILE like you know something they don’t. Watch and study people who are attractive, IE James Bond & Chuck Bass (Gossip Girl). Slow down. Relax, stop reacting so fast. Make eye contact with people. Socialize with people. Do fun things in your life, IE live your passions, travel, learn about wine, scotch, culture.
3) Men tend to look for sex objects and women tend to look for success objects.
Success comes in many forms depending on the woman evaluating the man. Coaches and companies drop the ball here because they don’t tell you how to actually KEEP the girl interested. Guys, flat out honest advice here, fix your lifestyle. If you are bringing a girl back to your mom’s basement you are not “cool” you are a serial killer. All the awesome clothes and cars in the world aren’t getting you past that one. If your place looks more like a Goodwill than a home, you might want to work on that. Because women usually don’t go to Goodwill to have sex. Fix your life before you fix your game. Success starts at your home NOT at the bar. Keep your house/room clean, smelling amazing and NICE. Don’t know how to do that, fucking learn.
4) Confidence is Almost Everything.
Coaches and companies miss the mark here when they try to sell you lines rather than the truth. The truth is, confidence is everything when it comes to women. I say to people all the time it’s amazing what you get away with in life and love when you have a suit and a confident smile. I am not going to sit here and talk about the countless stories I have and sell you some BS product, I am giving you the straight forward truth. Confidence is everything in life and love and whether you find it in the pickup community or a monastery in Thailand, you must learn to create it in your own life. Confidence is the key to unlocking the rest of your goals in life. I spent my entire life learning how to create confidence in my own life and I can say that it has been among the greatest gifts that I have given myself.
5) Being a Value Giver.
How we value ourselves come through in the people that we talk to, how we value other people is a tell tale sign of a confident man or an arrogant man. When you give value to other people regardless of their sex, race, religion and attractiveness to you, you are bringing people up rather than putting them down like so many others do. There is a lot of negativity in this world today but being a person who gives value is about giving freely without expectation or reservation. An arrogant man insults and seeks to make himself better than others around him and a self confident man seeks to better the people around him. Why does this matter when it comes to women? If you have to ask that question, you are already doing it wrong. Giving value to others is about THEM, not YOU. If you have to ask what is in it for me then you are already being a taker rather than a giver. When you give value to others you come from a place of selfLESSness, not selfishness. When you seek to better the people around you, you will notice a lot of other things fall into place, but please don’t believe me, TRY IT.
6) You Don’t Need A Coach or Company To Teach You.
My students never needed me, they wanted to learn and get a different perspective on things because they were confused. Every student I had came to me with one thing in common, they wanted confidence. The fact of the matter is you don’t NEED a dating coach, the dating coach NEEDS you or they are broke. Why am I telling you this? Because you should expect more than old rehashed lines and routines from the people you pay money to. There are MANY good teachers and companies out there and I encourage you to find them if you want a coach but know that you can do this 100% on your own. If you work on developing a sense of style, hit the gym, eat right, socialized and be a willing participant to break the walls of fear that have kept you from succeeding you WILL be successful with women.
I could write several articles on many other things regarding this topic but I will finish here by saying the following. Life is meant to be lived outside the confines of a message board. Pursue the passions that you have inside of you because life isn’t a dress rehearsal. When you find what you are passionate about you awaken a fire inside of you and women see that. Passions will come and go, and this is ok but along the journey don’t give into fear because something is uncomfortable, embrace it and define it.
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Here’s a damn fine gallery of pics tweeted by model and all around hottie, Brittany Dailey. Check out the rest of her pictures here and follow her on Twitter here
10 Relationship Words That Don’t Exist In The English Language – Ned Hardy
Photos Of Smoking Hot MMA Babe – Knowd
Another cute Army gal (5 Photos) – The Brigade
The 20 Hottest Election 2012 Network Newscasters – Heavy
Alexina Graham is damn near perfect – Celeb Slam
Romney’s First Draft of Last Minute Concession Speech – College Humor
The Most Amazing Garage Ever By TR Building & Remodeling (Photos) – Refined Guy
Kim Kardashian’s Chubby Bikini Shoot of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
The “Then and Now” of Film Characters (15 pics) – Izismile
12 Most Shocking Images of Sandy Destruction – Linkiest
Hot girls in lingerie, who ya got??? – Double Viking
Monika Pietrasinska Always Looks Great in Lingerie – G-Celeb
She’s Pretty: Meet Boca Raton Babe, Sandra Gabe – The Smoking Jacket
Beautiful Girls with Glasses is Now the Norm and I like it – Uncoached
How Celebrities Change Over Time: A Gallery – Unreality Mag
A nice collection of booty – Bro My God
Miley Cyrus Offered $1 Million to Do Porn – Yeeeah
Elaine Alden has a body to be proud of – Regretful Morning
Lindsay Lohan Scrubs Up Nicely – DJ Mick
Solving a Rubix Cube at 9 Gs – Ego TV
Rihanna Gets Ready To Perform On The Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show Runway! – Moe Jackson
60 Pictures Of Beer Bong Babes – Super Booyah
20 Obama High Fives – City Rag
Just How Broke Is Ken Shamrock? – Knowd
“Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves. – Dale Carnegie”
Pick your battles. Fight for your dreams.
Master your passion then become the jack of all trades.
Make plans for attaining goals and develop ways to track the progress.
Face reality head on and be honest with self and deal objectively with matters of concern.
Develop an attitude tough as nails and expect positive outcomes even when times can be uncompromising.
Initiate Action. When you see a problem jump right in anticipating that you’ll be part of the solution.
Stay off your high horse. You can’t be effective or helpful with your own agenda in the way. Focus on what’s in front of you.
Be a good listener. Stop talking about you. Listen!
Pay your bills. You can go more places with good credit than the dollar bills in your front pocket.
Slow down. Finish your thoughts and ideas before communicating them.
Fill your time with quality. Spend more time during the day completing things that are all-important.
Never quit but give up being judgmental.
Make sacrifices. Do things you don’t enjoy in order carry out a broader objective.
Practice what you preach. Enough said!
Never give up. Always finish what you started.
Agree to disagree. Burning bridges is not an option.
Southern hospitality. Give up your seat, hold open doors or help with a coat.
Stay sharp. Know your personal strengths and connect with someone who’s resourceful and well-established. Learn the new and reinforce the old.
Be a little cocky. Express your point of view with confidence. Tough talk amongst Men is a good thing, just be respectful.
Pay someone deserving a compliment. Be sincere and your compliment could fuel someone’s imagination.
Get some sleep. Go to bed early and try rising earlier. Early mornings can prove to be the most productive hours of the day.
Spend time outdoors. Any Man who can pitch a tent, build a fire, and feed a village is the guy you want to go camping with.
Be resourceful. Make it work with what you have, be adventurous and go the extra mile.
Get organized. Discover, implement, and execute a system not burdensome that works for you.
Spell out your life mission. Know what you want to accomplish and each day take a step in the right direction to follow through.
Welcome adversity. No one goes looking for it but hardship and misfortune is a sure way to reveal a Man’s worth. Grow from it, take it in, now BECOME.
Manage information intake. The brain is powerful beyond measure but it needs a break just like the body.
Team up with hard workers they’re always ready to go the distance.
Think Different. Break routine and be spontaneous. Innovate!
Know your limits. Know when to say you’ve had enough.
Master transforming big ideas into immediate action.
Take up new challenges. Test your abilities and discover your personal apex.
Shut the door on negative thoughts.
Adapt and overcome. Obstacles and road blocks will test you and life will throw you curve balls. Be Ready!
Develop a backbone. Stand firm and resist taking the easy route.
Show up. Be present for what’s important and ready to give your personal best.
Work hard. Stop kicking the can down the road “get it done”. Avoid any routine for putting things off for a later date.
Connect with someone stronger in areas you would like to improve. Be the apprentice who’s eager to learn new facts and skills.
Accept that everyone make mistakes. Know how to spring forward and stake claims for success.
Be straightforward. Be blunt and tell it like it is without compromising your gut feeling.
Simple living. Material things come and go so find value elsewhere. The “Joneses” are broke so don’t bother to keep up with them.
Be a leader. Be firm, fair, and consistent.
Go after what you want. Be assertive and have a pocket full of confidence. If you want it you have to GO get it.
Rest and Relax. Schedule time to not think about anything and secure a place to have peace with no interruptions.
Write it down. If it’s important write it down. If it’s critical write it down and prioritize.
Focus. Learn to focus on the present. Amplify everything and nothing will ever get done.
Befriend someone you know nothing about or someone you have nothing in common with. Be sincere, friendly, and learn something you don’t already know.
Be on time. Opportunity is missed most when you fail to be proactive.
Stay Healthy. Do a little cardio, strength training, and making good food choices. Now Repeat.
Continue to upgrade yourself.
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Would like to commit some #stealing at the 7-eleven on King Street. Anyone have experience with this location in the past 3 hours?
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 8, 2012
I love riding by cops and yelling out “PIGS!” because I just straight disrespect them. RT if you have any drugs on you right now.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 8, 2012
Everyone mail me a DNA sample, doing a school project.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 8, 2012
Love being a #criminal. Add me if you’ve committed any illegal acts today, let’s compare #crime stories.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
Tweet me a pic of your best illegal graffiti art. I’m a huge fan of vandalism.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
LOL who slashed the tires of police cruiser #13508 last night? Huge fan of your work, message me. #lovevandalism #passtimes #notacop
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
Where are my registered sex offenders at? Let’s chill tonight.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
Hey friends, hit me up if you want to drug together tonight. #drugs #lovepot
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
RT if you hate homework! LOL, or if you have shoplifted anything from the Walmart on Cherry Street recently.
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
Getting false accusations of me being a cop. I got a speeding ticket yesterday and jaywalked today twice lol, obviously #notacop p.s. I’m 17
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 7, 2012
Anybody have any cop friends? Lol, I don’t know a single one. #hatethoseguys
— Not A Cop (@NotANark) November 6, 2012
Here’s a damn fine gallery of pics tweeted by smoking hot Playboy Playmate, Claire Sinclair. Check out the rest of her pictures here and follow her on Twitter here
50 Life Lessons I Wish I Had Learned Earlier – Ned Hardy
Celebs: Before & After Photoshop – Knowd
Choose your Weapon (40 Photos) – The Brigade
WATCH: 9-Year-Old Girl Dominates Tackle Football League – Heavy
10 Ways Not to Flirt at a Bar – College Humor
Candice Swanepoel’s 60 Hottest Instagram Photos (Gallery) – Refined Guy
Victoria’s Secret 2012 Fashion Show of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
Smoking Hot Models from Around the World! (30 pics) – Izismile
Damn cute girl showing some sweet cleavage – Double Viking
Scarlett Johannson shows off her new tattoo – Celeb Jihad
The Sexy and Fit Women Are All Moms Too (35 pics) - Linkiest
Millie Mackintosh Brought Out the Double Knuckle Bra for FHM – G-Celeb
Natasha Poly is still in a bikini…still looking hot – Celeb Slam
She’s Uncoachable: Chelsea Gilligan Will Put a Smile On Your Face – Uncoached
Some of the Coolest Bookshelves We’ve Ever Seen – Unreality Mag
Anna Konno in Bikinis to Heal a Nation for #wednesdaywasabi – The Smoking Jacket
Nice compilation of girls being generous with cleavage – Bro My God
Rihanna Performs at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show – Yeeeah
Paulina Gretzky Middle Fingers Obama Doll After Last Night’s Election [PHOTOS] – Busted Coverage
Sexy Amateur In A Little Blue Bikini – DJ Mick
Cali Marie Wall is what dreams are made of – Regretful Morning
25 Lighting Festivals from around the World – Ego TV
The 60 Best Natural Breasts Of 2012 – Knowd