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Meet the wives and girlfriends of the PGA Championship golfers – AOL

20 Years of Wisdom From Amazon’s Jeff Bezos – Motley Fool

How Musicians Make Money — Or Don’t at All — in 2018 – Rolling Stone

Put this bad boy on your bed and you’ll feel like your sleeping on clouds – Amazon

How to Enjoy Your Days More: 4 Ways to Live Life to the Fullest – Tiny Buddha

Time Is Your Most Important Investing Asset – 2 Cents

The one thing that couples who have better sex do – Well + Good

The 3D pen allows you to bring any, and all, ideas to life in 3D – Awesome Galore

Who Killed the Great American Cable-TV Bundle? – Bloomberg

(Deliberate) practice makes perfect: how to become an expert in anything – The Startup

The 100 best science fiction movies of all time, according to critics – Business Insider

It’s easy to become obese in America. These 7 charts explain why – VOX

What Does Immersing Yourself in a Book Do To Your Brain? – LitHub

Sommer Ray Makes A Hot Comeback – Yes Bitch

How to Deal with the Foodie Asshole Trying to Ruin Your Meal – Munchies

The Best Photography Of The Week – Digg

Grieving Mother Orca Finally Drops Dead Calf After Carrying Corpse for 17 Days – Slate

Emily Ratajkowski Rockin’ the Thong Bikini in Sardinia – G-Celeb

Book Recommendation: Lies My Teacher Told Me: Everything Your American History Textbook Got Wrong – Amazon

Stormi Maya See Through on Instagram! – BB Blog

5 Things The Trump-Omarosa Spat Tells Us About The Trump White House – Daily Wire

Online Daters Tend to Be Interested in Partners 25 Percent More Desirable Than They Are – Mental Floss

An 11-year-old changed election results on a replica Florida state website in under 10 minutes – PBS

How to know if you’re in a toxic relationship — and what to do about it – Insider

This $1 Million Superwatch Designed by Sylvester Stallone Will Survive Anything – Maxim

Funny Instagram Trend: Donald Trump Cats – Sad And Useless

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Hot Instagram Girl Of The Day: Maria Isabel

A Few Glorious Clips For Your Consideration

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Pathetic

 

Not the smartest move, but a bold move indeed

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Bricks don’t hit back

 

Fuck this shit

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I tore my ACL just watching this

 

Excessive or nah?

 

The salt is real

 

Ok…that’s enough for now

 

Ecstasy

 

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The Daily Man-Up: A Short Insight on Dealing With Regret

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“How do I deal with regrets and failures?”

By Accepting them.

We all fail in our lives, and we all have regrets. I can think of plenty of times in my life where I have felt the sting of failure as well as regret, but that is an intrinsic part of life.

Failure and regret bring us pain, and pain leads us to discomfort. Humans, by nature, don’t like discomfort. When we feel it, we are compelled almost by instinct to regain a state of comfort. In order to do that, we must make a change, and in order to change, we must grow.

By accepting this, you begin to see your failures and regrets differently.

You begin to understand that a failure, when learned from, isn’t actually a failure at all, but a lesson. And this is what makes you grow as a person.

Use your pain as a strength. We feel negative emotions for a reason, we feel shame and regret and fail for a reason. Negative emotions are to be used as tools of growth. In fact, they’re some of the most powerful tools for growth at our disposal when thought of this way.

It all begins with your perspective. When you come at your failure and regret from a space of unacceptance, you fail to see the lessons within your mistakes and, as a result, become bound to them and doomed to repeat them.

Change how you process and experience your regrets and failures and you will change how they impact you.

– Justin C Scott

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Hot New Music Of The Day

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The homie sent over this new video from Seattle trio Spirit Award.  Their new video “Supreme Truth” is based on the Japanese death cult “Aum Shinrikyo’ lead by Shoko Asahara, who recruited the rich to join his cult and carry out the Tokyo subway sarin attack in 1995. After becoming fascinated with cults, institutions and religions, the band shed light on how it can be so easy to get lost in something when that’s all you’re surrounded by.

 

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The Most Dangerous Man On The Planet

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Move over Chuck Norris, planet Earth has a new badass in town and his name is Gilberto Pauciullo. He holds 22 10th degree black belts, yes, you read that right, 22! Which include five in Jiu-Jitsu alone, and one in ‘mexed martial arts’

Official Certificates:
11Th Duan – Man seer Kung Pai Kung Fu.
10Th Dan – Katory Yama RyuJu-Jutsu.
10Th Dan – Okonawa Go JuRyu.
10Th Dan – Street Rapid Defense System.
10Th Dan – WOSD/Kapap System.
10Th Dan – Self-Defense.
10Th Dan – Agni Kempo.
10Th Dan – I.F.Knife Fighting System.
Grade A – Hanshi – Soubukai Karate-Do / Japan-Tokyo.
10Th Dan – Ju-Boxing Full Contact.
10Th Dan – Shin KakutoJutsu-Hanshi.
10Th Dan – Gung Chi Pai Gung Fu System.

10Th Dan – Ju-Hitsu .AJJIF.
10Th Dan – Ju-Jitsu .IJJF.
10Th Dan – Ju-Jitsu .ACJJ.
10Th Dan – Ju-Jitsu .UAJJ.
10Th Dan – Martial Arts Police Method.
10Th Dan – Makoto Ryu Ju-Jitsu.
10Th Dan – Bu-JutsuSigung.
10Th Dan – Mexed Martial Arts.
10Th Dan – SERCSU.
10Th Dan – DIM MAK.
10Th Dan – Nefusen Submission Ju-Jitsu.
10Th Dan – Vietnamese Combat Martial Arts.
Si Gung Wing Chun – IntYp Man martial Arts Sifu Council.
Si Gung Chi Kung .
9Th Dan – Ken Jitsu.
9Th Dan – Tatsu Seiki Kikou-Do.
9Th Dan – Kamishin Kai Ju-Jitsu.
9Th Dan – Karate-Do.
9Th Dan – PioyEskrimaS.Miguel de Abanico Ming Sune Do.
9Th Dan – Chinese Kempo.
9Th Dan – Kokusai Sin JutsuKempo Kai.
Muk Yan Chong – Wing Chun Institute.
Chi Sao – Wing Chun Institute.
8Th Dan – Judo.
8Th Dan – Kimuchino Aikido.
7Th Dan – A.O.S. Tai Chi System.
7Th Dan – Ashihara Bu-Do kai.
7Th Dan – Ting Ho Dao.
7ThDuan – Shaolin Yang Sheng Fa.
7Th Dan – OSTCS.
6Th Dan – SeishinryokuGoju Kick Boxing.

6Th Dan – Kendo.
6Th Dan – OSR Karate-Do.
4Th Dan – FULUNGJJ.
2Nd Dan – Sakibo.
Master of MARMA ADI.
Master of KALARIPAYT.
Master of KAPAP – Level B – cert.n:704788.
Master of Military – Police Special Force.
Master of Special Commando Force – S.O.G.
Master Expert of KravMaga.
Master Expert of Close Combat System.
Depositary Master of Italian Traditional Knife.
Depositary Master of Italian Hand Weapons Combat System.

President, or otherwise serves in a position of leadership, for the: 
Italy All Martial Arts Federations.
World Man Seer Kung Pai Kung Fu Academy Confederation.
World League of Martial Arts – K.I.M.
It.Fil. Knife Fighting System.
United Nations Medicine Association – Oriental Medicine.
International Karate ShinkakutoJutsu Federation.
World All Martial Arts Federation.
Martial Arts Olympic – MAO SPORTS.
Italia All Japan Ju-Jitsu International Federation.
All Japan Ju-Jitsu International Federation AJJIF.
All Japan Ju-Jitsu International Federation AJJIF.
All Japan Ju-Jitsu International Federation AJJIF.
Istitute per le TradizioniMarzialiItaliane.
International Ju-Jitsu Federation .IJJF .
International Kimuchino Aikido Federation.
Italia Raven Tactical System.
International Kung Fu Federation.IKF.
World Organization of the Self-Defense.
AIK Kapap Tactical School.
Krav Maga System R.O.K.S.
AssoxiazioneNazionaleScuoleJu-Jutsu.
World SokeshipSeishinryoku Kay .I.O.S.K.D.K.A.
International American Okinawa Seishinryoku Tai Chi Club.
Italian Self-Defense School.
AssociazioneSportivaConfindustria.A.S.C.
World Martial Arts College.
Union International de Pancrace& Disciplines Assimilates.
International Combat Union.I.C.U.
International Combative Self-Defense Association.
Italy Representative Self-Defense:
World MartialArtsForum.W.M.F.
International Council of Headmaster &SokeshipRenmei.
World Organizer of Martial Arts.W.O.M.A.
International Council of Higher Martial Arts Education.
International Instructor Federation.I.I.F.
International Grandmasters Society.
World Head of Society.
Saudi Kendo &IaidoOrganization.W.O.M.A.
International Sifu Federation.
International Yp Man Martial Arts Sifu Council.
Martial Arts Association International.MAA-I.
Songchai Institute of Muaythai-Bangkok Boxing Stadium.
Kiyoukiyoku Bu-Do Team Saigo.
Hang Sheng Fa Association.

 

 

However, the accomplishments are dwarfed by those of Supreme Grand Master Dai Soke

With 45 years dedicated to the study of the martial arts,  Supreme Grand Master Dai Soke has earned 43 10th degree blackbelts, and two 12th degree black belts.  Where Gilberto Pauciullo has only five 10th degrees in jiu-jitsu, Supreme Grand Master Dai Soke has twelve!

Supreme Grand Master Dai Soke also lists a Cinturon Negro 10th Dan. This means he is a 10th degree black belt in black belt!

 

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The Story Of Nobuo Fujita, The Japanese Pilot Who Bombed Oregon in WW2

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The date was September 9, 1942. The Soviets and Nazis were duking it out in Stalingrad, and just a few days earlier, US and Australian forces had beaten the Japanese at Milne Bay, Papua New Guinea. Most Americans were following the war on their radios and in their newspapers, and they pictured a war taking places in faraway lands with strange names like Anzio, El Guettar, and Guadalcanal. So despite all the fear-mongering posters and East Coast blackouts, most probably would’ve been shocked to learn there was a Japanese submarine sitting off the coast of Oregon, just waiting to launch an attack on mainland USA.

The plan was to unpack a small Zero floatplane, catapult it into the air, and have it bomb the woods around the logging town of Brookings. If all went according to plan, the bombs would start massive forest fires, sending Americans into a panic, and drawing the US fleet away from its strongholds in the Pacific islands. The man chosen for the mission was a pilot named Nobuo Fujita, and along with his observer, Shoji Okuda, the two set off toward Oregon, planning to unleash hell.

Only the mission didn’t go according to plan. As it was autumn, the forests were damp and cool and not exactly conducive to forest fires. The bomb took out a few trees but didn’t start any raging blazes. A few weeks later, Fujita returned and dropped two more bombs into the Oregon forest, but while he started a few small fires, the residents of Brookings quickly put them out. Even though the Japanese had three incendiary bombs left, they decide to call off the assault. The invasion of Oregon was over . . . but the real story was just starting.

In 1962, Fujita was back in Japan, running his own hardware store, when he received a startling invitation. Much to his surprise, the citizens of Brookings had invited him to be the grand marshal of their annual Azalea Festival. The Oregonians wanted to improve American-Japanese relations, and the folks in Brookings had pooled $3,000 together for his flight. As you might expect, Fujita was rather skeptical. After all, he had tried to bomb their town. Worried they might hate him for his wartime activities, he took along his family’s heirloom 400-year-old samurai sword. If everything went well, he’d present it to the people of Brookings. If things took a turn for the worse and if the townspeople demanded it, he would ceremoniously kill himself (commit seppuku) with the sword to make reparations for his actions.

Fortunately, the citizens of Brookings were totally sincere in their invitation. They welcomed Fujita into their town with open arms, and the ex-pilot was so moved that he donated $1,000 to the local library to purchase books on Japan, encouraging peace between future generations of Americans and Japanese. In fact, Fujita even promised to pay for several Brookings teens to one day visit the Land of the Rising Sun. Even though he eventually went bankrupt, he scrimped and saved, and in 1985, he sponsored three children as his guests.

This trans-Pacific friendship lasted all the way into the ‘90s, and during his lifetime, Fujita flew to Brookings three more times and even planted a few trees in the spot he dropped his payload. Shortly before his death of lung cancer in September 1997, town officials declared Fujita an “ambassador of good will” and made him an honorary citizen. Today, his katana still hangs in the Brookings Library, a 400-year-old testament to the power of forgiveness.

Fujita presenting his sword to the town of Brookings

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What’s It Like To Be Anorexic

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anorexia

I remember the simultaneous high and pain of being hungry and light-headed. One can of diet Pepsi, one loaf of bread on my better days.  Peruse obsessively through foodie magazines, as if looking was eating—without the calories.  Whenever my mother left the house to go shop or run an errand, I ran to my closet, dug out my backpack, filled it with gallons of spring water, and—when the pack was full—grasped the handle of a gallon in each hand and ran or lifted.  I biked. I took 2 hour aerobic classes and returned home for 2 more hours of surreptitious stair-climbing as my parents watched television downstairs.  I got up in the middle of the night to pace the bedroom or stand on tiptoe. I sat on the edge of the seat—determined not to relax and let my fat recline and absorb into my body.  Before I knew it, the only thing I was doing in my life was starving and exercising.  

But what I remember most is the “voice” in my head.   I found out later many eating disorder patients experience a halving of their mental state, a “voice” disassociated from the rest of them: an eating disorder “voice”—the friend, the aggressor, the doer, the one trying to help you be continually better—who later turns against you.  The “voice” began nicely enough—with whispers of running just one more mile or shaving down just a few hundred more calories.  My starvation fed the “voice”: As I listened, it grew bigger and meaner.  [Caroline Zelonka is absolutely right about the ‘constant pounding.’  In my case, the pounding came from this inside ] And there came a point when this whole thinness quest was no longer a “high” point or a gateway to control; it was simply controlling me. There came a point when I cringed against that “voice” because I was tired now.  But I never thought once about resisting, the same way you wouldn’t resist to the demands of someone with a gun to your temple.  I might have felt caged but it was better than saying no, letting go, and falling over a precipice to the unknown and to fat-dom.  I could not imagine anything but death if I stopped listening.  Death was being fat, obscure, and silenced again.  Death was guilt so big I would end up killing myself.  So, there was no other way, really.  

I was seventy pounds at five feet three inches the first time I was hospitalized, and under sixty pounds the second time I was hospitalized.  People cringe and shudder when they hear the numbers.  The truth is, if you asked me how sickly and thin I must have looked back then, I couldn’t tell you.  Before I stepped into the shower, I would turn and peer back at two darkened grooves on the center of each buttock.  In hindsight those grooves were probably the bruising of poorly cushioned bones, although a friend recently told me with utmost authority that we do not have butt bones.  But that’s all I remember of how skinny I was.  I looked in the reflection obsessively, but, in my eating-disorder mind, I always saw a normal-sized girl. And, obviously, normal was not okay.  Normal was mediocre; normal was just as bad as fat.  Normal was not the best.  Why bother being anything but the best especially if I was used to being the “best”?  All-or-nothing.  And, so, I actually wanted to look like a poster-child from the starving Middle East or Africa’s.  I fantasized about dropping down to thirty pounds.  But, if thirty pounds was possible, why not fifteen?  I think my final weight-goal was to weigh fifteen pounds.

Like many of the other respondents here, I could go on and on.  The condition ‘eating disorder’ understates so many things about the disorder.  It takes over and takes away everything.  So, I’ll leave it at snapshots:

Hospitalization– being watched in our big ‘glass bowl’ sitting room, monitored via camera feeds in our room– was heaven in a way I couldn’t outwardly admit.  Physical prisons are the Maldives resort escape to your inner prisons.  Your inside warden is still there but, at least, it’s not just you and that warden. It’s you, the warden, and the buffer– the army of nurses and hospital monitors and other watchful eyes that somewhat ‘absolve’ you of your guilt in not feeding the voice.  I remember fearing the day I’d be released.  I never wanted that day to come.

You can complain and wheedle about having to put that pat of butter on your toast, or downing that can of Ensure, but there’s a guilty thrill juxtaposed with horror knowing that you don’t have a choice.  

My lips would turn blue with cold by mid morning on a summer’s day because of malnutrition.

My parents told me later they would creep into my room, lift up the covers to check if I was still breathing.  (Various doctors had told them to prepare for the worse– projecting I wouldn’t survive past a year.)

The voice of an eating disordered mind is like that of an abusive boyfriend. You are that cowering shell of a person you once used to be– who believes he is everything to you and that he loves you and you need him in spite of everything he’s done, and you wouldn’t know how to go on or be ‘yourself’ without him.  Recovery from the eating disorder and recovery of your real self is painful, and it takes a long time to feel like you aren’t abjuring some pure, higher-order ideal, that you aren’t being traitorous; you aren’t selling out. You’ll feel all of those things for such a long while and you’ll feel like you are losing your identity. You’ll even feel empty.  You’ll feel like it the whole world had it wrong and should have just let you be.  You’ll feel like gold turning to rusted copper.

An eating disorder is a full-on assault on all battle-fields– the cognitive, the neural, the physical, the emotional, the social.  It is so all-encompassing, nasty, and seductive.  It’s not a neat war-front of parties on opposing sides like it is with you against cancer.  When you are losing you feel like you are winning, and when you are winning you feel like you are losing

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The Dumping Grounds

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Driver Stops In Middle Of Busy Road After Missing Exit, Causes Crashes

 

Rodrigo Koxa broke the world record for the highest wave surfed (80ft)

 

Superheroes without special effects look super silly

 

Top 100 SNES Games In 10 Minutes

 

Black Mirror: China Assigns Every Citizen A ‘Social Credit Score’ , Puts Its People Under Pressure To Be Model Citizen!

 

Cripple fight!

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What It’s Like to Be a Really, Really, Really Ridiculously Good-Looking Man – Mel Magazine

Hundreds of priests sexually abused more than a thousand children, Pennsylvania attorney general says – Fox News

These pills are like Viagra on steroids. If you have ED, this will cure that shit quick! – Amazon

Most Millennials Have $0 for Retirement and We’re All Fucked – VICE

Man accused of eating ex-lover ‘fit to stand trial’ – AOL

Fuck Expensive Weddings: This Is What a $900 Wedding Looks Like – Pure Wow

This is what being in love looks like – in pictures – The Guardian

Florida shooter who claimed ‘stand your ground’ in parking space argument is arrested weeks later – Tampa Bay

Boy found at New Mexico compound died in religious ritual – CBS

To Fix That Pain In Your Back, You Might Have To Change The Way You Sit – NPR

I Chose MDMA Over Antidepressants – Tonic

20 Netflix Hacks You Aren’t Using But Should Be – Thrillist

When Earning $1 Million A Year Isn’t Enough To Retire Early – Financial Samurai

Woman Who Prefers Dating Ghosts to Men Now Wants to Have Child with One – Oddity Central

The Essential Camping Gear And Gadget Check List – Awesome Galore

Best Seasoning Ever. You can put this on anything and it will make it taste better, especially fruit – Amazon

Salma Hayek is Over 50 and Looks Like This in a Bikini! – Mr Skin

10 Rules of Skin Care That Help Korean Women Look So Young – Bright Side

How The #Vanlife Movement Is Influencing Car Design –

If you saw her in the gym what would you do – Trending Views

Ajit Pai Is Getting Grilled for Misleading Congress Over Imaginary Cyberattack – Gizmodo

Take the Close Relationships Questionnaire To Measure Your Attachment Style – Curiosity

Why You Should Get Your Coffee Before Boarding a Flight – Life Hacker

20 Most Expensive Chocolate Bars (That Are Worth Every Penny) – The Richest

Hot Instagram Pictures Of Amy-Jane Brand – Lurk And Perv

The War On Male Sexuality – Return Of Kings

Neuroscientists Discover a Song That Reduces Anxiety By 65%  – Good News Network

Jocelyn Chew Bikini Pokies! – The Slip

How Compound Interest Can Make You Rich Through Sound Investments – The Balance

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Hot Instagram Girl Of The Day: Olivia Brower

Welcome To Caveman’s Fight Club!

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The Most Sinister Boxing Match Of All Time

Undefeated Billy Collins Jr. (14-0, 11 KO) was a junior middleweight (154 lb.) prospect on his way up. Luis Resto (20-8-2, 8 KO) was a light-punching journeyman.

Resto beat Collins’ eyes shut and his skin purple and blue. Collins suffered a torn iris and his vision was forever blurred. Collins could no longer fight. Collins’ father and trainer Collins Sr. went up to shake Resto’s hand out of sportsmanship, only to be overcome with rage at how thin Resto’s glove was. He demanded the gloves be impounded. Resto’s padding had been removed, and Resto himself admitted years later that his handwraps had been soaked in plaster of Paris, a substance that hardens into plaster casts.

Collins began drinking and became violent without boxing in his life. He would later drive his car into a cement wall in 1984, ending his life at age 22. Resto and his trainer, Panama Lewis, were banned for life from the sport. Resto served 2 1/2 years in prison for assault, while boxing suffered a tragedy that shows just how dangerous cheating can be in this sport.

 

Damn this dude got some heart and gets out of a choke! 

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That follow-up punch!

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Boston Mutha Fuckin Crab!

 

Lethal leg kicks 

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Old Man Strength

 

Mikey Garcia (145) KO’s A Hater (220) In Sparring

 

Interview with Gerald McClellan 6 Years After the Nigel Benn Fight

 

Transgender fighter makes history against man in Muay Thai bout

On June 7th, 2017, Nong Rose Barnjaroensuk became the first transgender to compete in Thailand’s Rajadamnern Stadium, the country’s oldest Muay Thai stadium and the most prestigious one along the Lumpinee.

The road to the Rajadamnern has been tough for Nong Rose, tough. In fact, the transgender fighter, who identifies as a female, has struggled for years on her quest to fight in the stadium since it enforces strict dress code rules, notably forbidding sports bras. Long hair is not allowed either. Needless to say those rules severely limited Nong Rose’s chances to ever compete in the prestigious stadium.

It’s only after Nong Rose made waves in lesser known stadiums and after she collaborated with OneSongchai, Thailand’s most influential Muay Thai promoter, that the doors of the Rajadmnern opened for her.

 

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The Daily Man-Up: Are You The Man She Wants or The One She’ll Settle For?

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What women really want in a man?

The simple answer to the question above…confidence.

Yes, the elusive quality that every woman says they’re looking for in a man. Guys think that it equates to being aloof, emotionally distant, and kind of an asshole – but those are just insecurities posing as confidence.

What a woman really values is a guy who values himself.

A guy who has standards and specific qualities he looks for in a partner. A guy who wants someone who will genuinely respect him and will be excited to invest back in him.

A guy that isn’t going to settle for just anyone.

Women want men who have options. They want to feel like they actually have to earn your approval (not that they just got it because they’re hot and/or you’re lonely.) They have to feel like they could lose you if you’re not getting the connection you desire.

A woman wants a man who’s a catch. And they definitely don’t want to date down.

It comes down to how you’re presenting yourself – are you showing her that you WANT her, or that you NEED her?

When you’re needy and seeking validation, you will never be her first choice. You can’t hide your neediness by memorizing lines or playing games – the truth will always reveal itself.

You have to lead with behaviors that show that you value you. You have to act congruent with who you really are and what you want. You have to prioritize YOUR happiness first.

That’s the only way to develop a mindset of true self-confidence and never be the guy women settle for again.

The man women want vs who they settle for

Here are some scenarios to differentiate “first choice” behavior from “backup plan” guy.

He expresses his boundaries (“my time is important to me”) to a woman who constantly cancels on him or never commits to a date. He walks away if he’s tried 2 or 3 times to meet up and she hasn’t followed through. First choice.

He always says, “No problem, when are you free next?” and is available whenever she decides to invest in him (if ever). He continues to chase women who are distant. He may even resort to emotional manipulation, guilt tripping, or intimidation to try and get her to invest in him. Backup.

He flirts with women he likes over text and in-person from the start of their connection. He creates physical contact and goes for kisses on dates. He shows interest because he wants an intimate connection and will then see if that woman wants the same. First choice.

He doesn’t flirt or create physical contact because he’s ashamed women may be put off by his sexuality and they’ll reject him. He instead acts like a friend and waits for a woman to make a move or show interest. Backup.

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Selected Reading Of The Day: Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl

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October 9th 1942: “Today I have nothing but dismal and depressing news to report. Our many Jewish friends and acquaintances are being taken away in droves. The Gestapo is treating them very roughly and transporting them in cattle cars to Westerbork, the big camp in Drenthe to which they’re sending all the Jews. Miep told us about someone who’d managed to escape from there. It must be terrible in Westerbork. The people get almost nothing to eat, much less to drink, as water is available only one hour a day, and there’s only one toilet and sink for several thousand people. Men and women sleep in the same room, and women and children often have their heads shaved. Escape is almost impossible; many people look Jewish, and they’re branded by their shorn heads. If it’s that bad in Holland, what must it be like in those faraway and uncivilized places where the Germans are sending them? We assume that most of them are being murdered. The English radio says they’re being gassed. Perhaps that’s the quickest way to die. I feel terrible. Miep’s accounts of these horrors are so heartrending… Fine specimens of humanity, those Germans, and to think I’m actually one of them! No, that’s not true, Hitler took away our nationality long ago. And besides, there are no greater enemies on earth than the Germans and Jews.”

October 20th 1942: “My hands still shaking, though it’s been two hours since we had the scare… The office staff stupidly forgot to warn us that the carpenter, or whatever he’s called, was coming to fill the extinguishers… After working for about fifteen minutes, he laid his hammer and some other tools on our bookcase (or so we thought!) and banged on our door. We turned white with fear. Had he heard something after all and did he now want to check out this mysterious looking bookcase? It seemed so, since he kept knocking, pulling, pushing and jerking on it. I was so scared I nearly fainted at the thought of this total stranger managing to discover our wonderful hiding place…”

November 19th 1942: “Mr. Dussel has told us much about the outside world we’ve missed for so long. He had sad news. Countless friends and acquaintances have been taken off to a dreadful fate. Night after night, green and grey military vehicles cruise the streets. They knock on every door, asking whether any Jews live there. If so, the whole family is immediately taken away. If not, they proceed to the next house. It’s impossible to escape their clutches unless you go into hiding. They often go around with lists, knocking only on those doors where they know there’s a big haul to be made. They frequently offer a bounty, so much per head. It’s like the slave hunts of the olden days… I feel wicked sleeping in a warm bed, while somewhere out there my dearest friends are dropping from exhaustion or being knocked to the ground. I get frightened myself when I think of close friends who are now at the mercy of the cruellest monsters ever to stalk the earth. And all because they’re Jews.”

 

“Writing in a diary is a really strange experience for someone like me. Not only because I’ve never written anything before, but also because it seems to me that later on neither I nor anyone else will be interested in the musings of a thirteen-year old school girl. Oh well, it doesn’t matter. I feel like writing.”

Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl

 

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A Few Answers To Questions You Always Wondered About

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What is the biggest no-no when being arrested?

Criminal defense attorney here. Allow me to share with you my personal top ten “don’t do these when being arrested” moments, all of which I have personally had to deal with from clients.

  1. Don’t resist arrest. When the handcuffs come out, you cannot talk your way out of the situation any more; cooperate, and things will be much better for you.
  2. Resist the temptation to “explain yourself” to the officer on your drive to the station. They are recording you — and this can be used against you. Just be quiet.
  3. If you are being arrested for drunk driving, don’t refuse the intoxilyzer test. You will likely be much worse off for a refusal than a bad test number. Implied consent will screw you.
  4. Please remember to exercise your right to remain silent. There is nothing you can say that will help you in a meaningful way. Just stop talking.
  5. No one likes the guy who threatens to sue everyone in sight. Just request an attorney and stop talking.
  6. Routine booking questions don’t fall into the category of custodial interrogations, so please don’t refuse to give officers your real name. In many jurisdictions this can be a separate offense.
  7. For the love of all that is holy, do not use the following phrase when interacting with the police: “I’m drunk.” It is even less helpful when shouted at the top of your lungs.
  8. Do not, under any circumstance, ask the officer if he or she can “look the other way just this once” while holding out money in your hand.
  9. Sadly, most officers do not appreciate sarcastic remarks or observations about their weight or intelligence. Surprisingly, sentencing judges don’t particularly care for it either.
  10. Officers are not scared of attorneys. Don’t think that name dropping or threats of lawsuits will get an officer to leave you alone. Pro tip: it won’t.

Stephen Link, Attorney

 

 

How can I be financially free?

You have two options:

The slow or fast way.

The slow way – work your way up the corporate ladder, max out your 401k, maintain a low cost of living, avoid debt, save every penny you can and invest in a S&P 500 ETF.

Depending on your lifestyle, this method could allow you to be financially free in your 40–50’s.

There’s no problem with this method and it’s a great option for most. The reason it’s slow is because there’s no leverage.

You are limited to your own time, earning power and savings and most people can’t save more than $25-$50k per year, so it takes time.

The fast way – use leverage to build and acquire assets.

This option allows you to earn significantly more and accelerate the path to financial freedom by leveraging other people’s money (“OPM”) and other people’s time (“OPT”).

Types of OPM includes bank financing and investor capital. The wealthy use it to acquire and/or build businesses.

A common example is using a combination of bank financing and investor capital to acquire real estate. This allows them to buy and control much more real estate than they could ever afford on their own.

You might be able to save and invest $100k for a down payment on a duplex, but a group of investors could raise $1M+ for a down payment on a larger apartment complex.

Another example is using investor capital and OPT, such as employees and consultants, to form a high growth company that can be sold or passively operated in the future. This allows the owner to build a business larger than they could have ever done on their own.

You might be able to work 12–14 hour days, 7 days a week, but if you can hire some high quality employees, you can get many times more done each dayand hopefully reduce your hours so you can focus on building the business.

One person can only work and save so much, so in order to accelerate the process you must leverage OPM and OPT.

You also have the option of combining the two ways for a hybrid approach.

You could start a side hustle outside your full time job and invest the money in stocks, real estate, etc. This will speed up the process, but you still have no leverage and are limited to your ability to work more hours.

Good luck!

– Brian Condron

 

 

Why shouldn’t you get a PhD in history?

I am a PhD student in medieval history in the U.S. My remarks concern History PhD programs in the U.S. If you think this is hypocritical, so be it.

The humanities PhD is still a vocational degree to prepare students for a career teaching in academia, and there are no jobs. Do not get a PhD in history.

Look, I get it. You don’t “love history;” you love history with everything in your soul and you read history books outside your subfield for fun and you spend 90% of your free time trying to get other people to love history as much as you do, or even a quarter as much, or even just think about it for a few minutes and your day is made. I get it.

You have a professor who’s told you you’re perfect to teach college. You have a professor who has assured you you’re the exception and will succeed. You have a friend who just got their PhD and has a tenure track job at UCLA. You don’t need an R1 school; you just want to teach so you’d be fine with a small, 4-year liberal arts college position.

You’ve spent four or six subsistence-level years sleeping on an air mattress and eating poverty burritos and working three part-time jobs to pay for undergrad. You’re not worried about more. Heck, a PhD stipend looks like a pay raise. Or maybe you have parents or grandparents willing to step in, maybe you have no loans from undergrad to pay back.

It doesn’t matter. You are not the exception. Do not get a PhD in history or any of the allied fields.

There are no jobs. The history job market crashed in 2008, recovered a bit in 2011-12…and then disappeared. Here is the graph from the AHA.  300 full-time jobs, 1200 new PhDs. Plus all the people from previous years without jobs and with more publications than you. Plus all the current profs in crappy jobs who have more publications, connections, and experience than you. Minus all the jobs not in your field. Minus all the jobs earmarked for senior professors who already have tenure elsewhere. Your obscure subfield will not save you. Museum work is probably more competitive and you will not have the experience or skills. There are no jobs.

Your job options, as such, are garbage. Adjunct jobs are unliveable pay, no benefits, renewable but not guaranteed, and *disappearing even though a higher percentage of courses are taught by adjuncts. “Postdocs” have all the responsibilities of a tenure track job for half the pay (if you’re lucky), possibly no benefits, and oh yeah, you get to look for jobs all over again in 1-3 years. Somewhere in the world. This is a real job ad.  Your job options are, in fact, garbage.

It’s worse for women. Factors include: students rate male professors more highly on teaching evals. Women are socialized to take on emotional labor and to “notice the tasks that no one else is doing” and do them because they have to be done. Women use maternity leave to be mothers; fathers use paternity leave to do research. Insane rates of sexual harassment, including of grad students, and uni admins that actively protect male professors. The percentage of female faculty drops for each step up the career ladder you go due to all these factors. I am not aware of research for men of color or women of color (or other-gender faculty at all), but I imagine it’s not a good picture for anyone.

Jobs are not coming back.

  • History enrollments are crashing because students take their history requirement (if there even still is one) in high school as AP/dual enrollment for the GPA boost, stronger college app, and to free up class options at (U.S.) uni.
  • Schools are not replacing retiring faculty. They convert tenure lines to adjunct spots, or more commonly now, just require current faculty to teach more classes.
  • Older faculty can’t afford to retire, or don’t want to. Tenure protects older faculty from even being asked if they plan to retire, even if they are incapable of teaching classes anymore.

A history PhD will not make you more attractive for other jobs. You will have amazing soft skills, but companies want hard ones. More than that, they want direct experience, which you will not have. A PhD might set you back as “overqualified,” or automatically disqualified because corporate/school district rules require a higher salary for PhDs.

Other jobs in academia? Do you honestly think that those other 1200 new PhDs won’t apply for the research librarianship in the middle of the Yukon? Do you really think some of them won’t have MLIS degrees, and have spent their PhD time getting special collections experience? Do you want to plan your PhD around a job for which there might be one opening per year? Oh! Or you could work in academic administration, and do things like help current grad students make the same mistakes you did.

You are not the exception. 50% of humanities students drop out before getting their PhD. 50% of PhD students admit to struggling with depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues (and 50% of PhD students are lying). People in academia drink more than skydivers. Drop out or stay in, you’ll have spent 1-10 years not building job experience, salary, retirement savings, a permanent residence, a normal schedule, hobbies. Independently wealthy due to parents or spouse? Fabulous; have fun making history the gentlemen’s profession again.

Your program is not the exception. Programs in the U.S. and U.K. are currently reneging on promises of additional funding to students in progress on their dissertations. Universities are changing deadlines to push current students out the door without adequate time to do the research they need or acquire the skills they’d need for any kind of historical profession job or even if they want a different job, the side experience for that job.

I called the rough draft of this essay “A history PhD will destroy your future and eat your children.” No. This is not something to be flip about. Do not get a PhD in history.

–  sunagainstgold

 

 

What made the USA so powerful? Its economy is bigger than the economies of the next four largest nations combined. Its military budget is more than that of the next 20 nations combined.

Geography

  1. Size: It is the 3rd largest in area and population. The two countries bigger than the US – Russia and Canada have way too much unusable land. The 2 countries bigger than the US in population – India and China are still climbing up from the colossal destruction faced in the 19th century – early 20th century and also face severe resource constraints. Russia has still not settled in terms of governance. Australia & Canada have too few people. That leaves the US in a nice sweet spot.
  2. Isolation: Guarded by 2 oceans and a frigid nation to the north, the US never had to worry about a major war on its borders. Apart from the Pearl Harbor attack, most of the US military operations in the past century were far outside its territories. Most other nations bed with their fiercest competitors (China-Russia, India-China, India-Pakistan, China-Japan) leading to insecurity and poor decisions. 
  3. Self-sufficient: the US is probably the one country that is fairly self-sufficient in all fundamental resources. Unlike China, Japan, Germany or India, it has large quantities of oil & gas. Unlike the Middle East, it has plenty of water & agricultural land. Thus, throughout the 19th century, US grew unimpeded depending on Europe only for the luxury things.

People

  1. Flight of the smart: Throughout the ages, the US’ remote location helped cherry-pick the immigrants. Other than the Mexicans, everyone else had to travel long oceans to reach the US. That made the inhabitants self-selected — the less ambitious ones were left behind. The puritans, then the Italians, Irish, then the East European Jews and then the Asians all added faster and faster growth as hard work was a matter of survival for each group (returning back was not an option). US got on to nuclear weapons and other key ideas on the back of its immigrants.
  2. Education: For each wave of immigrants, education was a top priority. Whether it is the Puritan clergymen who created the Harvard or the Ashkenazi Jews who immigrated in 30s & 40s or the Asians who immigrated recently, getting to the top of ladder through education was both seemed possible and mandatory. Thus, US built itself as the world’s education superpower with a huge concentration of top universities.
  1. Naturally entrepreneurial: If you had to move this far and then stead a random piece of land in the middle, you need to be naturally entrepreneurial. Every country has its noble class. Since Americans don’t have Europe’s aristocracy or Indian caste system, they created their own hierarchy based on entrepreneurship. Getting rich became the mantra and people were ranked by their riches. It celebrated its entrepreneurs like no others.

Leadership

  1. Right leaders at the right time: US leaders were quite good by world standards. Despite all their complaining, they never had a leader like Stalin, Saddam or Mao. More importantly, US was fortuitous in their timing. They didn’t have someone like George W. Bush in 1861. FDR during Great Depression, Lincoln during Civil War, Eisenhower during post-war reconstruction, Theodore Roosevelt during the early 20th century expansion.
  2. Stability: The present governments of China and India are less than 70 years old. The US is about 240 years old and that kind of stability was lacking in much of the world.
  3. The Wars: By the start of the WWI, the US had built up a massive economy. During the war, it finally announced the “secret” to the whole world. Although the US faced some destruction, in relative terms it got far ahead of the rest of the world (most of which was obliterated). It was a victor in both the world wars and spared of the ignominy faced by Germany and Japan.

Balaji Viswanathan

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Poll Of The Day

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Is Fighting Back The Most Effective Way To Stop A Bully?

 

Man Confronts Superintendent, Claiming He Was Bullied as a Student

 

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7 Awesome Hot Sauces That Have Flown Under Your Radar For Far Too Long

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1. Dirty Dick’s Hot Sauce

Recently winning the First Place Screaming Mimi award at the New York City Hot Sauce Expo, this Vermont-based hot sauce is perfect for fans of bold and spicy flavor. Hosting a marriage of habanero peppers, mangoes, pineapple, bananas and brown sugar, Dirty Dicks offers a delectable balance of sweet and heat that’s no doubt going to enhance your dish, whether it’s for cooking or dipping.

 

 

2. El Yucateco Chile Habanero (Green)

You know how when you’re catching a rabid squirrel in an old “Nightmare Before Christmas” pillowcase, you have to approach it slowly, and from the side? It’s the same with El Yucateco Chile Habanero (Green), which we always refer to mentally simply as “Green Monster.” The first few times you try it, a few drops seems to overpower your food with its mighty habanero heat. But keep at it, applying it to shredded mole verdes, or dribbling it on quesadillas, and you’ll start to appreciate its bright, flavorful wallop. 

El Yucateco Chile Habanero

 

 

3. Yellowbird Hot Sauces

Yellowbird hot sauce isn’t just another spicy garnish — each dollop houses a number of flavors that go well beyond just heat. Depending on what type you prefer (I’m partial to the classic Habanero myself), there’s an abundance of taste, from smoky to citrusy, making this brand more than just the kind of hot sauce to clear your sinuses with (though it’s good for that too).

A beloved cult favorite made with quality ingredients in central Texas, Yellowbird seems to have some big ambitions. One glance at their website shows that they’re chasing after Sriracha to be the go-to condiment for making the most of those sad, day-old leftovers.

yellowbird hot sauces

 

 

4. Secret Aardvark Habanero Sauce

If you haven’t had the Aardvark, it means one thing: You’ve never been to a hipster taco place in LA. Ever. Because this stuff has got a buzz bigger than America’s last remaining bee colonies.

Strange is the first thing you’ll think when you taste this Portland, Oregon, hot sauce, which describes itself as “Caribbean/Tex-Mex.” It’s strange enough that you’ll want to taste it again just to verify what you just tasted. Then you’ll try it again, and again, and again, and before you know it, you’ll be addicted. With almost 20 ingredients, it’s one of the most complex sauces in this lineup. It tastes like tomatoes. No, like mustard. No, like sweet chilies. No, like…I don’t know. I can’t describe it. It’s just great stuff, and one of the most versatile sauces I’ve had.

secret aardvark hot sauce

 

5. Momofuku Ssäm Sauce

David Chang is loved for just about everything he does, and for good reason. His cookbook changed the game. His food shook the industry. Now he’s doing his own bottled gochujang sauce and it’s fire (not literally, though — it’s actually very mild). You need this stuff in your repertoire it’s got a little fermented funk to it and a whole bung of tang. Korean (and Japanese) flavors can be obliterated by our American “hit you over the head” sauces. This stuff is subtle: meant to draw out flavors rather than dominate them.

 

 

6. Huey Fong Sambal Oelek Chili Paste

If you’re ready to graduate from Sriracha, allow us to introduce you to our new chunky friend Sambal Oelek. Sambal oelek is made with raw fresh ground red chili, vinegar, and salt, and packs a sharp heat alongside a bit of a sour note. Try it on scrambled eggs, or any godamned thing under the sun.

 

 

7. The Pepper Plant Chunky Garlic Hot Pepper Sauce

Put this on anything and it’s a wrap! Best hot sauce ever that doesn’t scorch your mouth.

pepper plant chunky garlic

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The Dumping Grounds

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The Royal National Lifeboat Institute has created their own lifeboat for the first time. It has a top speed of 25 knots, it’s powered by waterjets, can stop in 3 secs and turn on a dime

 

A Boxed Lunch in Richmond, Virginia Has People Lining Up at 6 A.M.

 

Watch expert butcher Tom Mylan dissect a pig to find the choice cuts.

 

The Russo Brothers Break Down Every Avenger In ‘Infinity War’

 

An all dog heavy metal band is as ridiculous as you’d think.

 

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Linkage

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The Most Beautiful Place To Visit In Every Country In South East Asia – Thrillist

Why Do Guys Always Announce When They’re Going to Cum? – Mel Magazine

This insulated tumbler sold its soul to the devil, how else can you explain just how impressively it works? – Amazon

Father beats, kills man who followed his daughter into bathroom stall – AOL

Did You Fail At Something? Good—Do Something Else – Darius Foroux

I watched Nicolas Cage movies for 14 hours straight, and I’m sold – The Guardian

Easy And Tasty Skillet Chicken Recipe – 5 Minutes

Bill Cosby Says Being Declared A Sexually Violent Predator Will Damage His Reputation – BuzzFeed

These Are the 25 Best Colleges in the U.S. Right Now – TIME

A damn fine collection of bewbs and awesomeness – Leenks

Guy Finally Gets 30-Year-Old Cyst Popped And It Explodes – Unilad

Abby Dowse Is The Biggest Tease You’ll See Today – Yes Bitch

7 Ways Society Can Make a Man Soft – Average 2 Alpha

This bed helps reduce joint pain and improves mobility in dogs – Amazon

Why It Took Me Five Years to Realize I Was in a Cult – VICE

Sophie Turner Bikini Underbewb of the Day – Drunken Stepfather

When Are You Really an Adult? – The Atlantic

Florida Woman Fined, Sentenced To Community Service For False Rape Accusation – Daily Wire

Jessica Lowndes, Emily Ratajkowski and Other Random Women – G-Celeb

A Must Have For Computer Users Who Have A Hard Time Keeping Their Desk Organized – Awesome Galore

A day in the life of a Disneyland manager who’s worked there for 23 years – Business Insider

Kobe Bryant’s $6M Investment in BodyArmor Sports Drink Now Worth $200M – Bleacher Report

This 1967 Shelby Mustang GT500 Is Absolutely Beautiful! – Hi Consumption

FCC shuts down Alex Jones’ pirate flagship radio station – AP News

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