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How to invest: An essential guide – Get Rich Slowly
His Grandfather Was The Richest Man On Earth, But When He Was Kidnapped At 16, Nobody Came To Save Him – Weird History
This book contains wisdom and guidance on how to be the best human being you can possibly be – Amazon
Former Middle School Classmates Share An Emotional Reunion In Court As Judge And Defendant! (video) – Leenks
Sara Underwood’s Latest Exotic Travel Pics Are All About Bikinis and Coconuts – Maxim
How to Pay Off Student Loan Debt While Still Saving and Investing – Life Hacker
Best & Worst Refinance Mortgage Companies of 2018 – Comparisons
Seven days in New Orleans, where the resident foodie ate some of the best fried chicken in America, quested for a perfect gumbo, and found home away from home – The Ringer
Sharpening The Blade On A Pencil Sharpener Is Quite An Elaborate Process – YouTube
15 Expensive Things Found In Vince McMahon’s $40 Million Mansion – The Richest
10 Ways to Search Google for Information That 96% of People Don’t Know About – Bright Side
Top 10 Misconceptions About Famous Crimes And Trials – Listverse
Maria Menounos, Victoria Justice and Other Random Women – G-Celeb
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Why is it that women flock to some men and ignore others? Is it because of looks, confidence, humor, enthusiasm, personality, status, etc?
Depending on the circumstances and the girl, any one of these ‘reasons’ could be the deciding factor, but that’s not what’s important. What’s important is that these are all symptoms of something deeper, something more fundamental. They are the outward expression of a single ‘rule’ for attracting women.
The problem with most dating advice is that it focuses on developing or exhibiting these traits and ignores the actual cause of these traits. It focuses on ways to ‘fake it’ and get around your inability to attract women.
Some advice involves lying or making up stories to make you seem more attractive. Other advice involves various flavors of changing who you are to make a girl like you.
These methods can work in the short term, but that doesn’t make them right, and in the long term, they usually leave you unhappy because you are rejecting who you really are just so you can get a girl to like you.
The key to becoming attractive is to avoid studying tricks and tactics and work on the inner cause of what makes you an attractive person.
What you really need to attract women
The reason why some men struggle to attract women, or for that matter, anything they want into their lives is that they lack a genuine love for who they are. They don’t respect who they are, they don’t like certain things about themselves, and they don’t even believe that they deserve to have the pleasure of a beautiful, confident woman in their lives.
This is the root of almost all problems men have with women. If you loved yourself, you would take care of your body, you would exude self confidence, you would be comfortable starting conversations with people, you would be fun to be around, etc.
So, the most important thing you can do for yourself, starting today, is to love who you are. You’ve got to believe that you are valuable and worthy of being loved before any woman will give you the time of day.
Rule #1: love yourself above any and all women.
I’ve never met anyone who truly loves themselves who is unhappy or unable to attract women.
Why is this rule so important?
If you love yourself, you will be happy and excited about your life, making you a fun person to be around.
If you love yourself, you will be extremely secure and confident in who you are and your ability to deal with what the world throws at you.
If you love yourself, you will not chase after women or compete for them, you will start to attract them into your life because you realize that you are a high value man. You become the prize that they should seek.
If you love yourself, you won’t let the inevitable rejection bring you down. You’ll learn and move on.
If you love yourself, you will believe that you deserve happy, fulfilling relationships.
If you love yourself, you will start to see shallow women for what they are and you will naturally become more selective, again, making yourself the prize.
It breeds confidence, security, happiness, and self respect. It gives you the capacity to love others. It allows you to share who you are with the world, to freely express yourself, and to give to others because you are no longer worried about what’s in it for you.
You no longer fear rejection because you don’t let the acceptance of others affect whether or not you accept yourself.
Learn to cultivate a love for yourself, for who you are now and who you want to become, and you will start to see women flock to you in droves.
How do you do it?
I’m sure this makes sense to you, but you’re probably wondering how to accomplish it. How can you rid yourself of insecurity and become your own biggest fan?
Well, it’s not easy and it will take work…and even then, self doubt will always be lurking nearby waiting to thwart your confidence. You see, nobody ever completely rids themselves of feelings of fear and insecurity, but those who believe in themselves and practice building self confidence, are able to push through these feelings and prove their self worth.
Self love boils down to 2 key steps: 1) Knowing who you want to be and 2) Living in a way that is consistent with who you want to be.
Challenge
I’d like to leave you with some action steps to take TODAY, to start developing a deep self love that will make you more attractive to women and more successful in life.
1. Accept the things about yourself that you can’t change. Nobody is perfect. Everybody has things about themselves that they wish were different. Luckily, we have control over a lot in our lives and can often turn lemons into lemonade. However, there are some things that we can’t change. The first key to loving who you are is accepting that which you cannot change.
2. Develop a realistic self image of the person that you want to be in life. There’s a lot that goes into this, more than is within the scope of this article. Things like your goals, values, strengths, etc. What I really want you to think about and work on is the image you have of yourself when you close your eyes and think about who you are. How do you describe yourself? Your personality….your looks….your strengths….how do you handle various situations in life…what are your hobbies and interests…..what are your habits… Be able to answer these questions.
3. Come up with a list of actions that you need to do on a regular basis to support your ideal self image. If part of your self-image is that you want to be strong, one of your actions should be to go to the gym or to learn more about what it takes to be strong. If part of your self-image is that you want to be a leader, find ways that you can step up and lead something or learn more about becoming a leader. If you want to influence others, an action might be that you need to start expressing your ideas to others. If you want to be a ladies’ man, get out and start meeting women. Whatever traits you want to exhibit, make a list of actions that support these traits.
4. Remind yourself everyday of your ideal self image and then get out there and actually DO things that support that self image. Be the person you want to be. Over time, if you believe in that image of yourself and do things to support it, you will become that person, that ideal version of yourself.
Once you do these things and start living a life that you are proud of, you will develop strong self love. You will be so focused on living the way you want to live that you won’t even care what some girl thinks about you. This confidence and zest for life will make you irresistible to women.
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Most people didn’t know that Raymond Suckling was a wealthy man. The longtime mechanical engineer from Sewickley, PA., loved fast food, drove an inexpensive car and wore Veclro sneakers. But his $37.1 million donation to the Pittsburgh Foundation before he passed away proves he chose to live a modest, simple life instead of one of glitz and glamour.
Unbeknownst to even his closest companions, before he died in 2014 at age 93, Suckling had accumulated millions including money he inherited from his parents and from his own investments.
Suckling’s bequest, which was finalized in December, will benefit the Sewickley Public Library, the Heritage Valley Health System in Sewickley, and nonprofits and programs in the Sewickley region that help low-income youth and families.
The gift will be allocated in annual amounts of $1.5 million with yearly grants of $500,000 a piece made to the library, the hospital, and to the Pittsburgh Foundation’s 100 Percent Pittsburgh initiative. The initiative will channel it to nonprofits in and around Sewickley that assist people in need.
Buddy Hallett, the son of Suckling’s longtime companion Betty Hallett (pictured), said the only time anyone may have guessed at Suckling’s wealth was when the family went out.
“Raymond always wanted to pay for everything,” Hallett said in a Pittsburgh Foundation release. “[But] no one knew that he was a man of such means.”
He mowed his own lawn and liked attending to the trees and bushes at Betty Hallett’s home in Florida.
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A Damn Fine Collection Of Bewbs, Awesomeness and Everything Inbetween – Leenks
Cancer ‘vaccine’ eliminates tumors in mice – 90 of 90 mice cured of cancers with lymphoma, similar results observed in colon, breast, and melanoma cancers – Independent
David Schwimmer has been an advocate for child and adult victims of sexual violence and has served on the board of directors of the Rape Foundation for the last 15 years – Hollywood Reporter
If you have a problem with losing things like me, this thing is a godsend! – Tile
What Was Marilyn Monroe’s Sex Life Like Outside Of Her Public Image? – Weird History
San Francisco Plans to Wipe Out Thousands of Pot Convictions – Fox40
If you suspect Bitcoin is going to crash, I just want you to know, you’re right. Here is the truth – Underground Finance
Bri Teresi Is The Biggest Tease You’ll See Today – Yes Bitch
Pink Floyd Live at Pompeii (1971) – YouTube
Ariel Winter in sexy leather – Drunken Stepfather
10 things smart people never say – The Ladders
The Daily Picdump – Radass
Holocaust survivor breaks decades-long silence to share her horrific story – Buffalo News
Father buys $64,259 ad calling for police to reopen investigation into son’s death – CBS News
Miley Cyrus, Katy Perry and Other Random Women – G-Celeb
Russia Is Banned From Paralympics, Again, for Doping – NY Times
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“To stand up straight with your shoulders back is to accept the terrible responsibility of life, with eyes wide open. It means deciding to voluntarily transform the chaos of potential into the realities of habitable order. It means adopting the burden of self-conscious vulnerability, and accepting the end of the unconscious paradise of childhood, where finitude and mortality are only dimly comprehended. It means willingly undertaking the sacrifices necessary to generate a productive and meaningful reality (it means acting to please God, in the ancient language).”
― Jordan B. Peterson
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We all know about the running joke that romantic relationships are a source of misery.
We grew up on shows like Married With Children where Al Bundy hated having to hang out with his wife Peg. We hear friends challenge each other with, “You’re so whipped!” And serious couples give us ominous warnings such as, “Don’t get married.” or “It’s all good now, but wait until the honeymoon is over.”
These may make us laugh but they also reinforce that our partners are a burden on our lives.
It’s true that maintaining a happy, healthy relationship takes work. But that doesn’t mean it has to suck.
The secret lies in finding a relationship that makes life easier and more fulfilling for you.With a compatible partner and mutual support, your relationship should decrease outside stresses, increase productivity, and improve the quality of your lives.
You shouldn’t need to be told to help out. If you’re sitting around and there’s something that you know needs to get done (such as the dishes or laundry), do it. Most of the time it takes only a few minutes.
I understand you might be tired or need to unwind. But those tasks aren’t going to do themselves. They will just continue to pile up and usually cause more anxiety for you and your partner.
Maybe you think, “My girlfriend/boyfriend will take care of it.” Great, but don’t be surprised when they start feeling overworked and taken advantage of. And don’t be surprised when your sex life diminishes.
Stress kills libido. If your girl always comes home to chores, she’s not going to feel sexy for you. She’s going to be tired and tense. Instead, take some of the workload for her. She’ll be relaxed and grateful — a winning combination to get her in the mood.
It’s 2014, there are no gender-specific jobs. Men: you can wash dishes, cook dinner, and fold laundry. Women: you can put up a shelf, change your oil, and kill that scary spider (or take it outside, your choice).
Do the above sound like ridiculously sexist statements? They are, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t heard people in couples say, “I don’t do that kind of stuff” or “That’s her job, not mine.” Those are bullshit excuses.
If you have a task system to keep you both organized, great. But even with that system, there will be times where one of you has to fill in for the other. Be willing to adapt and do something you’re uncomfortable with.
The hardest part of working out for many people is just starting. Once they get going, they become motivated and feel a sense of accomplishment. Having someone there with you is the best way to be held accountable.
Mr. Rogers went swimming every morning with his wife. I go trail running and hiking with my girlfriend. We throw the football around. We even have high-intensity dance parties.
Working out with someone else makes exercise fun. That’s why personal trainers are so effective. You can talk and keep each other distracted. You can make each other laugh. And you can challenge each other to keep pushing.
If you have different regiments, that’s still not an excuse. I do weighted bodyweight exercises while my girlfriend does regular bodyweight exercises. She may jog while I’ll sprint back and forth next to her. You can always find a way to make things work together.
I’m a tech nerd and I know my girlfriend will never be. It’s not her passion and I completely accept that. But I still take the time to teach her about my interests.
It helps her understand my world but there’s also immense value in it for her. She uses that knowledge to fix her MacBook Pro. She uses various applications to teach her students music. And she can hold conversation about many technology-related subjects with different people.
Teaching one another about passions also creates shared interests. Maybe you teach your girlfriend about craft beer and then you find a new hobby together visiting breweries.
Your partner doesn’t always have to share your interests but they should still understand and respect them. That can only happen if you take the time to educate them about it.
Every day we have goals we want to accomplish. But no one can read your mind — you need to tell your partner what’s important for you to get done.
Whenever I hear someone complain about their partner not giving them time to themselves or to get work done, I ask, “Did you tell them about it?” The answer is usually “no.” You can’t blame someone or be mad at them for what they don’t know.
If you need alone time to study, speak up. If you want to see a friend you haven’t connected with in a while, let them know. If you’re trying to focus or work out, convey that clearly.
Not only will your partner be more understanding and supportive of your needs, they may even be able to help making things easier. Which brings me to…
It doesn’t make you weak. You aren’t inferior because you could use help with something. It actually means you’re confident enough to accept or know when you need assistance.
Having terrible luck landing a new job? Get your partner’s input on your resume and job search. Need help dealing with a difficult family situation? Ask for advice.
I’m a professional coach and writer. I still ask my girlfriend to edit and review my articles because she has a great literary eye. My posts come out tremendously better because of it and I learn so much from her.
In return, I have more free time to help with her side music business. She plays harp for high-end weddings and events. I carry her harp to the events, move her equipment, and take care of the logistics, such as finding parking around Carnegie Hall. She has more time to focus on practicing, tuning her instrument, and performing.
It’s a wonderful setup that allows both of our businesses to thrive.
Do things out of the kindness of your heart. Using favors and errands as a bargaining chip or to hold it over someone’s head is manipulative.
You’ll immediately lose your partner’s trust. They’ll feel like you’re only doing those things out of spite. This is a downward spiral that is nearly impossible to come back from. It has been the death of many relationships — don’t let it kill yours.
Does that mean you should blindly keep quiet when your partner doesn’t invest or help in return? Hell no. But going the passive-aggressive route or throwing it in their face is not going to help the situation. This only creates resentment and further deters your partner from contributing.
There’s a better way to approach that situation. . .
As a relationship progresses and especially once you move in together, you become a support system for each other. That system only succeeds when both people are equally involved. For all the advice you implement from this article, expect the same from your partner.
If you feel like you’re the only one putting in effort, you need to address that with healthy communication. Don’t attack or shame your partner. Instead, express your discomfort calmly with “I” statements. “You” statements come across as accusatory and can put the other party on the defensive leading to no progress. Try…
“I’m feeling overwhelmed and need your help. I feel like I’ve been doing the majority of the housework lately and it’s too much for me to handle myself. Do you think you could help me with X and Y during the week?”
A fair and caring partner will understand. They may not have even realized their shortcomings. They will work to resolve the problem and strengthen the relationship.
Of course, your expectations need to be reasonable. You shouldn’t be a slave driver or have a compulsion to fix everything right then and there with no leisure time. And you have to put in as much effort as they do.
Unfortunately, when you’ve addressed issues multiple times and have seen no initiative from your partner, you may have a bigger problem. Consider if you’re with someone who’s compatible and truly respects you. If the answer is no, find a better match before things get more serious.
That’s why it’s so important to have standards, understand what you want, and choose a suitable partner in the first place.
Younger couples and new couples often want to spend every moment with one another.
And why wouldn’t they? They’re excited to learn about each other and the sex is amazing.
But there’s something to the old idiom, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Take it from a guy who smothered his ex-girlfriend to the point where she saw spending time apart as her freedom.
You need your own friends, passions, and hobbies. You need to have your own experiences. You need to learn to be self-sufficient and stand on your own. And so should your partner.
Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for co-dependency. You will lose your sense of self. You’ll end up relying on another person for your own fulfillment and even forget how to be happy without them.
If you need to constantly be with your partner out of control and insecurity, you’re on a losing path. You can’t keep a tight grasp on someone forever. This always creates resentment until they gain the courage to leave your clutches.
Your best bet is to support them in doing their own thing. Recognize that it’s good for them to have different interests than you. Don’t take it personally. Don’t feel threatened by it. Accept it as a healthy part of being a self-confident person.
Being independent gives you more to talk about when you’re together. It makes you appreciate your time together more. It builds trust. It builds attraction because we all desire confident, self-directed people. And it allows you to grow so you can both grow as a couple.
Your partner isn’t supposed to save you or be your source of joy. All they can do is support and encourage you, but you still need to build a great relationship with yourself.
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Steven Pladl, 42, of Knightdale, and Katie Pladl, 20, were arrested Jan. 27, WNCN-TV reported, citing “warrants.” They have also been charged with adultery and contributing to delinquency. The maximum sentence for the incest charge is 10 years in prison.
The child, a boy, was born in September, the station reported.
Steven Pladl was released on a $1 million bond. Katie Pladl’s bond is also $1 million but as of last week she was still being held in a North Carolina jail. They appeared in court last week.
The charges were brought in Virginia where authorities believe the relationship began.
The station reported that Pladl gave up Katie for adoption when she was an infant.
They reunited in 2016 when she tracked him down through social media.
At the time, Pladl was living outside Richmond with his wife, Katie’s mother, and their two children, girls who would have been Katie’s sisters.
Katie moved into the home, the station reported.
Subsequently, Pladl and his wife legally separated in November 2016 and began living apart.
Online records show the wife filed for divorce in March 2017 and obtained a divorce decree three months later.
The ex-wife told authorities that just before she moved out Steven would sleep on the floor in Katie’s room, the station reported.
The ex-wife learned Katie was pregnant last May after reading one of her daughter’s journal, the station reported.
Eight days later child welfare workers in Virginia began conducting interviews, according to the station. They interviewed the two young Pladl girls who said they had been told their father fathered Katie’s baby
The warrants show that Steven told his two daughters to call Katie their step-mom, the station reported.
Police in suburban Richmond issued arrest warrants for Pladl and Katie last November.
The ex-wife told Richmond’s WTVR-TV that her former husband and Katie married in Maryland and then moved to North Carolina.
She believes her ex-husband brainwashed and manipulated Katie, the station reported.
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